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Aug 14, 2015, 02:27 PM
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I just read a post which I think is illuminating regarding what I (and probably others) struggle with sometimes.
I hope it's ok to post it, my purpose is to try to help others avoid some of the painful pitfalls I've fallen into... If you encounter people in your travels who are intent on blaming others (as in you) and are intent on projecting "stuff" onto you... Separation of Stuff! look at the situation from a distance if you can (hard to do sometimes I know) I love this "it's not my circus, not my monkeys  " 
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Aug 14, 2015, 02:48 PM
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Fuzzy, You are wonderful for sharing this insight. Getting distance from the problem puts it in a long term perspective, in 6 months or 6 years it may not even be remembered.
It is the world's circus and the world's monkeys and we just happen to have walked into the big top. It's not our show, but we can enjoy it as best we can.
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Aug 16, 2015, 05:04 PM
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I have that saying posted in my cube at work to remind me to myob when other people want to drag me into their stuff.
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To thine own self be true, then thoest can not be false to any man. 
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