I'm upset that people didn't remember my bday

My birthday was yesterday and while I had fun, only 1 friend and 2 relatives remembered my birthday and I find myself upset by that. I'm upset enough that I'm strongly considering kicking people out of my life because I feel like most people who are in my life don't care about me unless I benefit them somehow.

I'm not upset about a lack of gift receiving by any means despite only receiving $45, a cake, and a nice dinner at twin peaks (complete with some of the women there checking me out haha), but I'm upset by the lack of words by people who are supposed to care about me.

Is it normal for me to feel this strongly upset by people in my life who didn't wish me happy birthday?

Mine was recently too and no one remembered but that's how I like it
The feelings depends on the person I guess, I don't like any type of praise or celebration at all.

That sucks man. It's not about praise or material things for me, it's about feeling like people care about me which I don't think most people in my life do.

I think 90-95% of those currently in my life would abandon me the moment that I outlive my usefulness to them, therefore, I guess I need to make myself more useful to other people. Such a shame that I lack the ability to be cared about for simply being me.