[Fuzzybear]

I've confused two people already today and upset one.

When will I learn

Sorry

[pegasus]

Please be gentle with yourself. You are a very caring bear.

You are not responsible for other peoples reactions.

(((((((( Fuzzybear ))))))))))))

[Fuzzybear]

(((((((((((((((( pegasus )))))))))))))))))

Thanks for your understanding, respect, tolerance, intelligence, generosity of spirit..... I could go on!!

we all do this.....at one point or another....

((((hugs) freewill

[bebop]

((((fuzzy))))

[Fuzzybear]

(((((((((((((( freewill ))))))))))))))

((((((((((((((( bebop )))))))))))))))

[Fuzzybear]

yup I'm stupid

sorry for being suck a mess today should have styed in my cave

[bebop]

honeybear stop beating yourself up hon. it isn't worth that. we love you here. (((big hugs)))

[Sabrina]

You're not stupid, just human!

(((Fuzzy)))

[gardenergirl]

Fuzzybear,
No one is stupid! Where or from whom did you learn to call yourself stupid? I know for me it came from siblings and peers when I was young. I do this too, saying I'm stupid or a moron, or whatever, but it's not true, and it's not really us saying it. So push that thought right out of your head and don't own it, 'k? ((((((fuzzybear))))))

It's okay if you're feeling er, fuzzier than usual, at least mentally. We all have days like that. It doesn't mean anything about anyone's character, it just means it's not a sharp day. Take a breath, take your time, and keep moving forward.

You're definitely smarter than the average bear.

gg

[Wants2Fly]

I have always found you to be caring, considerate, and sensitive. I have not noticed anything stupid or even ignorant (which we cannot help) about you. I'm sure whatever happened was the result of misunderstanding and miscommunication, not being stupid.

Please don't be so hard on yourself.

Hugs and hugs and hugs.

OMG! Fuzz, please!!! We all have those days when we just can't seem to do anything right on the boards. You know? We're telling someone off or someone is telling us off or our posts are being deleted or we've misunderstood someone else's post/reacted badly about it/felt foolish and wanted to crawl under a rock and die or people misunderstand what we write-anything we write-everything we write. GRRRRRRRRRRSSSSSSSSS all around, for sure.
You're probably end up pissing someone else off today and you'll more then likely be kicked off this site for it-hunted down and treated like a horse with a broken leg. ~Get Fuzzy!!! GRRRRRR!! BAAAAAAAAADDDD Fuzzybear!!!
I'm only kidding, silly!!! Try not to be so hard on yourself (((((((((((((((FUZZY))))))))))))))))))))))))))


Look, as long as you don't get him ticked off, you're fine ~~~> ~No Worries, Fuzz. I'm not ticked off.

More hugs!!!! (((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))))

Fuzz, I was only kidding.

Fuzzybear,

I am having one of those days too. We can hide under my umbrella

[therealme]

(((((((((((((((((((fuzzy))))))))))))))))

((((((((( )))))))))))
Hope your day has gotten better.

[Fuzzybear]

Thanks to all of you

gg, I learnt this from parents and peers..... maybe from "au pairs" too (had a string of those .... some were "not nice" ...)

"he/she is a moron" is/was one of my father's favourite expressions......

"it's not really us saying it"..... exactly So why does it hurt so much (rhetorical question)

Thanks for saying I'm smarter than the average bear

And thanks again to all xo
.... Fuzzy

[Direction]

Having what your father said play over and over again, must be hard.

[Fuzzybear]

((((((( Direction ))))))) (if ok)

[Direction]

Yes - ok - I really need one today.