[Impala]

I've posted about the fact that my best friend and I are no longer in touch and that she has behaved very hurtfully since she became ill.She has now broken off all contact.I'm seeing other friends who treat me properly and doing other things.

Yet I find the hurt my friend caused me won't go away.For the majority of the time the friendship was all on her terms-now once again,she's broken off contact..........regardless of my feelings.I vary between feeling sad for the lost friendship ,the fact that she's ill,and feeling angry for how I've been treated.(Surely my feelings are no less important just because she's ill?-also ,she's acknowledged that her illness has never stopped her from doing somehting if she really wanted to-which makes me think she sometimes uses it as an excuse for plain hurtful behaviour). Sometimes I feel I want to contact her and get off my chest all those angery feelings.Would that help me? Would it be the best thing to do?.

[selfy]

i think,,,maybe if she has hurt you so much. why not write her a letter? saying all of the things u feel. it is up to youwether u send it to her. but sometimes writing things down can get things off of your chest. also,, feel free to PM me anytime.
take care
self

[DePressMe]

Impala,
I am sorry you are going through all this. I am struggling with a relationshp now because of some hurtful things I have said. I can't really give you advicce on whether or not you should talk with her and get it off your chest. Maybe you could write down a list of what you want out of the conversation and what the possible outcomes might be...maybe it would help you decide.

[Impala]

I suppose I'm torn between getting it all off my chest so that I don't keep dweeling on it,and thinking should I do that when she's ill.Then I think,being ill doesn't give her the right to do hurful things regardless of other people's feelings does it?