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Jul 16, 2007, 07:24 AM
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... my going away posts when I then change my mind.
And sorry for anything else I've posted that others find triggering. For me, I'm often hurt and triggered online. And offline. Often agonisingly so  But the alternative of isolating is not healthier, I've been told. That is for ME.. I do my best but I can't control how others perceive me. I iwsh I could.  I do know, for me, people who frequently hurt and/or trigger me almost always remind me of someone in my family in some way, or some aspect of myself. That is ME.
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Jul 16, 2007, 07:37 AM
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((((((((((((fuzzybear))))))))))))
so glad you are here and safe!!
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Jul 16, 2007, 07:38 AM
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 ((((((((((((((((((((((fuzziestbearsiest)))))))))))))))))))))))) xoxox J |
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Jul 16, 2007, 08:14 AM
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so glad that you are staying
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Jul 16, 2007, 09:52 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((FB))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Jul 16, 2007, 12:17 PM
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Sorry about... my going away posts when I then change my mind.
Is there something that's bugging you that you feel you can't say, so you say you're leaving instead? Maybe we can all help you rather than you getting triggered so much. Maybe we can help narrow it down and come up with a plan on how you can avoid the triggers. (Good-bye posts happen to be one of my triggers. They send up a major red flag for me and I try not to respond because they usually come back then leave again and so on.) So maybe we can help you stay in the sunshine rather than needing so many umbrellas.  Maybe someone could make you a nice happy cave. 
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Jul 16, 2007, 12:19 PM
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Fuzzy,
Dont be sorry. U got hurt and reacted, we all do that. Im glad your staying.
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Jul 16, 2007, 01:57 PM
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Thank you all
Petunia, the cave you made for me is an ideal solution  ...... I know what you mean, I sometimes get triggered by other "goodbye posts" (my abandonment triggers ...)I'll try phoning someone or PMing instead of posting when triggered like that Or some other self care 
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Jul 16, 2007, 01:59 PM
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PS yes to your first question..
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Jul 16, 2007, 02:16 PM
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Glad youre staying.
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Jul 16, 2007, 04:48 PM
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 Fuzzybear I don't got no words today 
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Jul 17, 2007, 07:58 AM
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Jul 17, 2007, 07:59 AM
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SongBirdandDaisy
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Jul 17, 2007, 08:49 AM
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((((((Fuzzybear))))))
I send much love and healing thoughts your way. So glad to hear you are staying. Take care of you. Love you my friend. If you ever want to pm me. purplesecrets |
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Jul 17, 2007, 09:59 AM
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(((((((((((((((((( purplesecrets )))))))))))))))))) love, Fuzzy
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