She's gone, seems I should have listened

they took her with no fanfare, no choice, froom school when I was very ill. she is gone. I can't ask or answer questuions about how she is or what she is thinking, she is just gone. after 14 months

oh hon I am so sorry. (((hugs)))

soft gentle (((((((wisewoman)))))

((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) I am so sorry...

so sorry! ((((((wisewoman)))))))))

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I am so very sorry.

Hugs,

Jan

((((((wiswowman))))))) I am very sorry. How terrible for all of you.

wisewoman, while she was with you, she received unconditional love and care. you made a huge difference in her life, which will help her in the future and i honor you for that. you gave her a beautiful gift and you impacted her life........xoxoxo pat

I'm so sorry hon ((((((((((((((( wisewoman )))))))))))))))

((((((((wisewoman)))))) I'm so sorry. What an unfair situation -- for all of you.

((((((((wisewman))))))))) I'm sorry this happened to you.

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I'm so sorry, Wisewoman. ((((((((((((((((((WiseWoman)))))))))))))))))))

So sorry to hear (((wisewoman)))

((((Wisewoman)))) My heart goes out to you. It does seem rather cruel to do that to both of you, but hopefully it will not be so harsh for her as it is for you. How sad.

Comfort yourself as best you can, and once you are ready, then you can realize the good you have done in that child's life, and built a foundation for the next person to build upon.

I am so sorry. ((((((((WiseWoman))))))))))

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I'm so very sorry this happened. I know it doesn't seem fair or warranted. I have no doubt you did the best you could with the 14 months you were together. I pray that you know you made a difference in her life and that she will never forget you for your kindness and love. I pray you will heal from this difficult time and that she will find more love, acceptance and healing in her life as well.

Thank you for being such a wonderful woman in the life of this child.

Hugsss
sabby

((((((((((wisewoman))))))))))
I'm so very sorry

This is a sad thing for you, Wisewoman. Please take care of yourself.

For everyone, thank you. I sleep odd hours and wake odd hours. I can't stand that she doesn't even have her things that are so important to her. I am going to do several drive bys tomorrow of the home where she is at and if vacant leave a ton of things of hers. This woman and I were friends I thought except she repeated everything in a twisted way I ever said. I don't want to live in this world where we do this to each other. The boss woman also mentioned me putting her on my chest, like it was wrong. I said I did to try and comfort her, just lay her there and hold her and roll her back and forth, we would sometimes end up laughing. She chastised me for having her sleeping with me and I told her I was not, that I would read stories and give her kisses and wait for her to go to sleep. She was so scared and had slept with the other foster parent. This woman is sick. So many worries and doing this to a child. At least the chils has known the comfort of sleeping on another body.

For everyone, thank you. I sleep odd hours and wake odd hours. I can't stand that she doesn't even have her things that are so important to her. I am going to do several drive bys tomorrow of the home where she is at and if vacant leave a ton of things of hers. This woman and I were friends I thought except she repeated everything in a twisted way I ever said. I don't want to live in this world where we do this to each other. The boss woman also mentioned me putting her on my chest, like it was wrong. I said I did to try and comfort her, just lay her there and hold her and roll her back and forth, we would sometimes end up laughing. She chastised me for having her sleeping with me and I told her I was not, that I would read stories and give her kisses and wait for her to go to sleep. She was so scared and had slept with the other foster parent. This woman is sick. So many worries and doing this to a child. At least the child has known the comfort of sleeping on another body.

Wisewoman,

It is sad when things go in a direction we feel is completely wrong.....it isn't easy to deal with when it feels so unfair to her (especially) & to your heart that cares so much.

Even though it is probably hard to see right now, through the hurt, but for the 14 months you gave her unconditional love & helping her to even understand what love is. That is something no one before was able to relate to her. You gave her a gift that will last a lifetime....yourself, your love, your caring.

You may not see the results right now, but on down her path, the seed of love you planted.....will definitely grow.

Take care of your sad now...& think of all the good you were able to do,
Debbie

((((((((((((((((((((((((((wisewoman)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Take heart that she will always know the love and kindness you gave her. The best gifts of all.

BB

this is so cruel for everyone involved. im so sorry wisewoman. at least you can know you did your best and helped her while you could.
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