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Dec 12, 2007, 01:14 AM
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It's funny. I really want to say what's going on in my miserable little life but I can't muster the words. Not good at asking or accepting help. Feel at a huge loss here.
Can't think of a good reason to keep on breathing... Okie
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Dec 12, 2007, 01:21 AM
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Whats goin on hon? Please answer .. i am worried about you !!
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Dec 12, 2007, 02:09 AM
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am so worried...... (((hugs))))....
muster just a few words....let a little of it out.... |
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Dec 12, 2007, 02:19 AM
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Okie.. need you to be safe.. you've left me hanging here. I hope that you get some rest and feel better tomorrow. I need you my friend.
Luv ya Bethy
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Dec 12, 2007, 02:58 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((okiedokie))))))))))))))))))))))))))
sorry your not feeling very good at this time plz if you can just rest, when you feel able come and rant here on the boards we are here to support you , you do not need to ask
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 No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
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Dec 12, 2007, 09:20 AM
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((((((((((((((((( okie ))))))))))))))))))))
When it's hard to find the breath to speak, push yourself dear one......put it out there either on the forums or to someone you trust in a pm. Please don't shut down, and don't shut anyone out. You are in my prayers hon.......reach out your hand as far as you can and I'll reach the rest of the way. Hold on tight okie.....you have so many here who love you and want to be there for you.  sabby |
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Dec 12, 2007, 11:23 AM
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((((okie))))
Take a deep breath, take several. I'm sorry that you're hurting so much right now - but you don't have to keep it all to yourself. Post here, it's what PC's for. --splitimage
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#8
Dec 12, 2007, 11:37 AM
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Don't worry about asking for or accepting help, how about companionship in your difficulties. We're all here, rowing the same sort of boat, the PC flotilla.
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#9
Dec 13, 2007, 10:21 PM
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I hear ya! But you know it would sure help if you just start typing. Spill it out in the forum. We have members that really care and are willing to listen or maybe beable to help you solve a problem. It is even more frustrating feeling low if you cant vent!
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Dec 14, 2007, 08:51 AM
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Hey Okie, I am sorry you are struggling right now...hang in there. I don't know what is going on, so I can't offer much advice, but please know that I care.
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You don't have to fly straight...  ...just keep it between the lines!
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Dec 14, 2007, 01:50 PM
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unsure of any words that would be of help or comfort at moment. w/ that said here's this post anyway
 it is much harder to ask for help (or even post about how hard it is) than it is to go it alone. you're not alone okie. with kindness, __zh
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#12
Dec 14, 2007, 02:05 PM
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Thank you all very much. You've made me feel a bit better 'bout myself.
Ok, warning, this is gonna be all about me. Content may be totally boring to others. Let me recall my life: 2 alcoholic parents Raising siblings Taking care of parents Death of grandma, aunt and mama all in one year 4 hospitalizations physical and sexual violence sexual violence by pdoc was told by pdoc he gave the fatal Final Exit suicide injection to his mother addiction poverty divorce depression/anxiety/PTSD clean x 5 years relapse education, education and more education nurse (ER and psych) safety engineer (wonder why I went in to safety?!) in love with man going thru divorce and I work with him have lost all the weight I need to lose and now men are asking me out right and left and I don't know how to deal with it (and why didn't they ask me out when I was overweight?) 100 years of Catholic guilt Christmas is my favorite time of year and hardly feel like putting up a tree want to be supportive here but don't have it to give right now, but I think of all of you each day If you got this far, thanks so much for letting me share, and reading about it. Love to all, Okie
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Dec 14, 2007, 02:34 PM
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Okie, you are being supportive by writing and sharing. I am not doing so good right now and reading your post helped me. I like the idea of laying things out like that--I am going to try it.
Also, it seems like you have overcome a lot in your life... thanks for posting.
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Dec 14, 2007, 02:40 PM
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Dear Okie,
I was just reading you list of everything you have gone through reminds me of a quote that I heard a long time ago. It states that, "What does not kill me, will only make me stronger". To my way of thinking, you are still here, and that is a testament to not only your strength, but also to your endurance. Stay Strong and don't ever give up. You have come too far to turn back now! Cordially, David (NewDawnFades) |
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Dec 14, 2007, 05:34 PM
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Thanks, David. Welcome to PC. Please let me know if I can ever be supportive to you.
Best, Okie
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Dec 14, 2007, 06:01 PM
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OKie....hunny...
I am here for you too! I also don't feel like putting up any Christmas decorations, but that's okay with me. I'm not having Christmas blues, or anything like that, but it's just me, my reclusive self, and I hate taking the stuff down more than putting it up! Love, Patty |
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