[InACorner]

Yesterday my x bf picked up me and took me to my doctors appointment. His mother got his sister to call him and say that his mom is furious for hanging out with me and that she wants to kick him out. She wanted him back at the house right away. Well he said he couldnt because he had to take me to an appointment. We got out of the doctors and ella (the one who his mother is trying to hook him up with) called him to say his mother went to the ER ....riiiight....she has already been there two weeks ago....what was it for you may ask? Shortness of Breath....in otherwords.....attention hungry.....she was pissed he didnt listen to her and so went to the ER because obiviously the ER is important....so he took me back to my coworkers house (since they kicked me out and made me homeless practically) and kissed me on the forehead and said he was going to do whatever he could to win back my love, he said he loved me and would call me the next day. The next day (which was today) i had no phone call, no text no nothing. I text him and called him and everything...nothing. So later this night (around 6 pm ) i went to the facilitly with my coworkers sister.....i was going to say goodbye one last time. As we walked across the parking lot i swore i saw my x bfs uncles car....i told her i was sure it was the uncle coming to pick up ella from work....i went in there and my coworker said that she heard his mom got out of the hospital right away and they gave her 5 days off....she requested a note for her son to take off of school and work so he could "nurse her back to health" i also found out that my coworker said that that was him in the car HIM....he didnt get out...he didnt say hello...anything...nothing at all......he saw me...i know he did....after three years...and i dont even get a hello...or thank you or anything...so just a few mintues ago my coworkers sister and i got a plastic bag and filled it with everything he gave me that i had with me....( some stuff i mailed home) i put his name on it and she gave it to him...merry freaking christmas....

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I am so hurt and devisated that I self injured and drank an entire 40 ounce beer thing (which is like 1200 ML i think for those UK people) and i smoke some pot.......and yet i still have not dulled the pain.....

((((((((((inny))))))))))))))

my sweet sweet twing
know that i love u
and am here for u to help u thru this heartbreak

[Perna]

{{{inny}}} we won't leave you here. Wish I were there; I'd help you take the stuff he gave you to his mother's front yard and make a bonfire. Don't hurt yourself over his duplicity! Won't help anything (including dulling the pain much).

[InACorner]

((((((((((elsqueelio))))))))))))
thank you twing for all of your support
i really needed to hear such kind words

(((((((((((Perna))))))))))
Thank you. I am so glad to know i am not alone, I am a loner but being this alone can make one loose their mind....I love the bonfire idea....we just handed it to him. I was going to leave it on his doorstep ring the bell and leave but my coworkers sister said the family might throw it out and not tell him....so she gave it to him....they wouldnt have opened the door for me. I will try to calm down alittle more with everything...i think last night i just snapped....snapped because the man i moved for and dedicated my life to just threw me away and wont even talk to me....i thought we at least deserved to leave each other nice and to still be friends.....i mean we have been through so much....being friends seemed only natural to me.....i guess his mother doesnt even like that idea....so he cant.....
He even left me high and dry to taking me to the airport....i had to ask my coworker to take me...thank god she has off that day....he cant even take me to the airport.....he is with his mom 24/7 to nurse her back to health and to take care of her and to make sure she has no more shortness of breathe.....just like that i am forgotten

inny ur never forgotten cant be u have too much spunk and its a good thing to have

(((((((((((inny)))))))))))))

[Raynaadi]

((((( Inny )))))))

He's not worth your heartbreak, and its certainly not worth hurting yourself over him.....you're moving on.....it hurts right now but it will pass. Please don't hurt yourself anymore over him. Please?

[I_WMD]

((((((((( INNY ))))))))))) Very much a place caught between....................... sux................... Glad you found a place of respit .. ( except the slicey dicey thing )...Sorry you can't pull b/f outta moma drama .... Keep thinking ahead ,,, My Best To You/. Take Care.

[curley]

Awwee InACorner, I am so sorry. . It is so sad when moms use their power as moms to completely control their children. I can only hope he meant what he said about winning back your love. But obviously he is not a strong enough person to go through with anything if his mom does not approve. I know you hurt. But self injury is certainly no way to go. Why hurt yourself because someone that is weak hurt you. And I do not know your coworker, but are you sure everything they tell you is the truth? Please take care of yourself. Love yourself

[silver_queen]

((((((((((( inny )))))))))))

If he was sitting in the car and did not acknowledge you, perhaps it was because his mother was watching from somewhere and he knew he'd get into more trouble with her? And same with the calls and texting - she might be looking at his call and text records.

[AAAAA]

InACorner,

I'm so sorry that you were hooked up with such a loser!!!! It hurts right now but someday you will look back and say "what in the hell was I thinking, thank God I didn't stay with him!" He's so not worth your time and energy!

(((((InACorner))))) Something sounds off between him and his mother, you're lucky to have escaped. Think about what could have happened, you might have wasted more of your precious life with freak and Momma freak. The apple does not fall far from the tree, you don't want her manipulating you and then him doing it as well!

I love my kids dearly, and as much as I tease them that I want final approval (and they KNOW I'm kidding) on their significant others, that situation just makes my flesh crawl.

I have an Aunt (whom I love dearly) like that. She was SO jealous of who her kids dated and ended marrying. She has had serious medical issues for a long long time. All five of her kids got so tired of her manipulation (once they recognized it) that none of them will have anything to do with her now that their father died.