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Dec 20, 2007, 04:14 PM
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I am trying to get ready to go to the funeral home for my brothers visitation. I have some very bad anxiety right now with having to be around my family. I took my anxiety med last night and this morning but its not helping me. I cant not go. Please please.. tell me its going to be ok. I need some encouraging words more than anything right now.
TY, Hugz Bethy
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Dec 20, 2007, 04:28 PM
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beth honey you can do this! go in with your head held high. even if you do not speak to the others you can do this. you need to do this for yourself hon.
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Dec 20, 2007, 04:42 PM
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It's okay, whatever happens is okay. Let us know what happened when you get back. Take us with you (if you haven't already gone).
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Dec 20, 2007, 05:11 PM
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You WILL be okay! Just try to keep focused on your goal - you are going to the funeral home for your brother's visitation - and nothing / no one else matters.
Best wishes.
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Dec 20, 2007, 07:22 PM
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Dear SWEET SUNSHINE,
If you go to the funeral perhaps you can tell your family and friends you are not feeling well and can't stay long. It is the truth and you don't have to be specific and you might also sit at the back so you can slip out if you need a break. It is sad you are stressed out and grieving at the same time. I'm sorry for your loss. -Greg
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#6
Dec 20, 2007, 07:32 PM
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Sweet, I know someone told you last night, You Are Stronger Than You think"! I know its true. Please believe it. My best thoughts and prayers are with you.
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People are like stained glass windows They sparkle and shine in the sun but when darkness hits their true beauty is revealed only when there is light within . Elizabeth Krubel-Ros |
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#7
Dec 20, 2007, 07:36 PM
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I am sorry for the loss of your brother.
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Dec 20, 2007, 08:15 PM
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((((((((((((((((((( Bethy )))))))))))))))))))
You are in my thoughts. I'm sorry for your loss dear one. Remember to breathe deeply and slowly. Pay your respects because it's the right thing to do. Hold on tight to some good thoughts and leave whenever you feel is an appropriate time for you to leave. If you are not feeling well, then leave hon. Making an appearance and paying your respects is what is important to you.....let the others deal in their own ways and you take care of you.  sabby |
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#9
Dec 20, 2007, 08:26 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((Sweetsunshine)))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Dec 21, 2007, 12:59 AM
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((((((((((Sweet))))))))
Sending my condolences.
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Dec 21, 2007, 04:35 AM
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I am sorry for your loss. Sending you some strength ((((Bethy))))
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#12
Dec 21, 2007, 08:20 AM
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(((((((((Beth))))))))) Hope you're getting through okay. Hang in there.
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Dec 21, 2007, 09:18 AM
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How'd it go, Bethy?
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#14
Dec 21, 2007, 09:58 AM
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((bethy)) i know uve prob been there and gone
but dammit ur allowed to go ur allowed to do whatever u need and want to do dont let them make u feel bad uve not done anything wrong hes ur brother too (((((bethy))))) |
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