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May 15, 2008, 04:13 PM
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I guess I will be moving out this July, With God`s help.
It was my roommate`s request but then she got frustrated at me for refusing. Today I thought to myself that it can be great just to have an apartment FOR ME on my own no need for roommates. They place I love the most, whoch is really near me in EXPENSIVE and right now i don`t have the money for such...like 1000$ etc... But today i thought of itfor 2 reasons: 1) I feel fine when I am alone but when my roommate makes meals with our classmates and never invites me to join them and even when i join them and talk wiht them etc, In the end when i want to help wiht the dishes i am rejected....I feel relatively lonely and it is sad and it hurts and i would better be alone copletely - without feeling lonely 2) I always wanted adn dreamed about such a place JUST FOR ME to be there for a while. I always know thre will be such a period in my life, I have nothing agains a family. But i am not rushing it. I don`t even have a boyfriend  3) I thought today about having to clean because i it`s not fair that she is always cleaning because she is crazy about it. Each one of us cleans once in 2 weeks so that`s every week we have a clean apartment. this week she wasn`t naggy about the cleaning like she usually does....so i want to clean and do WHATEVER I want without having to try to do anything and have to do with anybody... I just wondering....won`t I be scared?   I rememeber there were people who got into the building knocking on doors and beating you up if you open. It`s a quite dangerous place... I could live with roomates in the place i dream about if there was any...but i am not sure that there is. Most of people there are rich famelies, i think and not poor students... |
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May 15, 2008, 04:24 PM
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 How exciting this can be for you. Please start small...I mean SMALL. It will be cheaper by rent and also for cleaning and upkeep and putting furniture into and all that. Then, because you went small first and can maybe put aside some of that money you would be normally scrimping to pay the higher rent elsewhere, you can go looking for a larger place. You'll know better just what you like and what you don't want to pay for...and will be happier in the long run later on! Good wishes!
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May 15, 2008, 09:05 PM
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Living on your own can be great. But I agree with the suggestion of starting small initially, you can always move to a larger place later.
And think about how much fun you can have decorating your own place. --splitimage
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May 16, 2008, 07:49 AM
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Thank you both very much
 Yeah sky of course. I now made a call found on a site a cheap place...we call it here a "studio apartment" a 1 room apartment in my area and well thank you God I hope it`s o.k.... It`s 330 i found and i am going with my parents to see t this week with God`s help. I am pretty happy for it.. So my mom told me this morning, and so did my grandmom, that they both would like me to move out because they don`t like my room mate`s behavior and like i sadi - I am better off alone/ It`s cool thanks God it`s still relevant. A girl is moving out and the owner told her to find someone instead. It`s near the "Gesher" theatre the which is now considered the one of the best in the world....and there is the supermarket when i always go is really nearby Now my Mom says " I want to buy you a new bed etc" i told her let`s ind an apartment first. Now she is talking with taht girl ...anyways i my mother and I are going there tomorow evening to see it. I hope it`s fine and we will grab it b4 anybody else. |
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#5
May 16, 2008, 07:19 PM
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Wonderful!
See, life opens new doors ll the time. We have to be willing to poke our heads in and check out what comes up - exactly as you did. I'm happy you have the support of your mom and grandparent as well. Maybe they can help you furnish it - or have great ideas, and if you have garage sales over there, or thrift stores, you might find a real deal you can add your own touch or color onto! This had 'GOOD' written all over it - have fun! peace and independence, nightbird
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May 17, 2008, 08:30 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
nightbird said: Wonderful! This had 'GOOD' written all over it - have fun! peace and independence, nightbird </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Where ? Good idea you said about furniture. I already have some furniture and i don`t have to buy a lot. But i want some old fasioned dark colored furniture that LOOKS old. like the alittle bit victorian style but not too much. |
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