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#1
Jun 02, 2008, 03:12 PM
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.... i was thinking about this the other day and wanted to remind myself and others of these important words........
they hads touched my heart....... Heres his post((tuckers)))))))) --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Quote: Anonymous said: things have not been going well here in tucker land. docs told me last week i have 3 months at best left to be here on this earhtly plan. pain is to the max, 160mg ms-cotin twice a day plus ir morhine for break thru. yep that bad. i have already been in contact with hospice, guess thats where i'll end up. I feel like a failure in life and in death. i quit don't know what to say but thanks to my friends here at pc when your at this stage in your life as i, a coment is felt i'm aloud to make. ppl here talk in circles, same old stuff from someone else on a different day. u have so much to live for, push it to the limit. i don't care how bad it hurts you. this will be my last post, i want to try to fill a few last dreams i have before the pain, well you know. its been an honor to have known u, don't be sad, i know i'm going to a place of no pain, tears or wants... xoxoxo u pat love and the best to all of you..... i will be terminateing my menbership in acoulpe days.. just can't keep up. Tucker........................................................................................................................................................................................... (((Tucker))))))) My friend I miss you Your words of wisdom.........words that have come to my mind so often......... "when your at this stage in your life as i, a coment is felt i'm aloud to make. ppl here talk in circles, same old stuff from someone else on a different day. u have so much to live for, push it to the limit. i don't care how bad it hurts you." muffy your friend |
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Jun 02, 2008, 03:22 PM
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((((((((((tucker))))))))))))
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 No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
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Jun 02, 2008, 07:14 PM
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Muffy,
What a great, wise friend. Thanks for sharing with newer members like me.
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Life shouldn't be this hard . 
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#4
Jun 02, 2008, 07:31 PM
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yw (((((free2beme )))))
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#5
Jun 02, 2008, 07:38 PM
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(((( tucker ))))
Wherever you are, I hope you are at peace. 
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Jun 02, 2008, 07:56 PM
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((tucker))))))))))) I posted this 11/8 07 ((i think)))
"Know that you have made a difference just in that saying. hope you read this so you know. same old circle, different day, your right...........time for me to let go of what i need to and push it to the limits. May peace find you when you need it, may your journey be so you get to do what ever you need to my friend. I know you will fly with the angels" I want you to know , where ever you are.....it took 1 and a half year for me to get there........ No more 56 hours a week after this week is done....... No more spinning in same circle I have been The circle being me wasting time and not enjoying life......... To help others and see thier worth and that everyone matters WHere ever you are friend ...know you did make a difference...... Time for me to live.......To heal........To love .......To live like I was .......... your friend muffy |
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Jun 03, 2008, 01:36 PM
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(((((Muffy)))))
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Now if thou would'st When all have given him o'er From death to life Thou might'st him yet recover -- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631 |
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#8
Jun 03, 2008, 03:55 PM
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Tucker was very wise and honest.
I take his post to heart.
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"Life is short, you get one shot, make it count." ~ Yours Truly |
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#9
Jun 03, 2008, 04:24 PM
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(((((pachyderm)))))
((((StarPonysMama )))))))))))))))) you are so right
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#10
Jun 03, 2008, 06:44 PM
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 Tuck is Right about the Push it To the limits [ end ]..... Days do get better ,,, if we find the moment that we see a glimps of >>>>>>  Happiness.
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#11
Jun 04, 2008, 08:23 AM
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Thanks for sharing this muffy.
That struck me, about how he said for everyone of us to just live life, no matter how it hurts us. Damn. Just like what my friend said, "...you have everything to live for..." I may not realize what that "everything" is..but I think he's right. Awww, it brings me to tears..... <font color="purple">Clandestine</font> |
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#12
Jun 04, 2008, 08:39 AM
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dear sweet (((Tucker)))
may you have peace everafter
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Parce que maman l'a dit 
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Jun 04, 2008, 02:56 PM
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(((((tucker ))))))
i had read this post last year.. it came up just about the time i returned to PC after a few years absence.... i feel blessed i was able to read it then, and now..... tucker, you say such an important thing... the feelings i have that these were the last words you had for us here really is something i cant describe well.. </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> when your at this stage in your life as i, a coment is felt i'm aloud to make. ppl here talk in circles, same old stuff from someone else on a different day. u have so much to live for, push it to the limit. i don't care how bad it hurts you. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> how many, many, many times i have thought this to myself.... the critical place and time we find ourselves in the Earths' and humanities evolution does not escape me... i read these words and i feel a torment inside of what this planet has become.... i dont wish to focus on negatives, but i feel very concerned about the next 50 years.... what is left for the children? the circles we have all gone in... throughout history.... the repeating cycle of destruction and growth... it seems to me i am a miniature replica of all that the Earth herself has had to endure at the hands of people like myself... and it continues... this circle of collapse and rebirth.... how much more can people and the planet endure? i ask myself about these concerns.. about going in circles... i ask myself, 'how do i change this cycle?" i know that for me, i had to come to a place on the path i walk.. a place where i could stop and look around.... see what i was doing that was contributing to my own, my communities, my Earths ill health... was i part of the problem? as i answered myself, the full sorrow of the truth came home to me.... yes, i was part of the problem.... i wasnt kind enough to others... i failed to consider the effect of my own actions... i presumed i was a small and insignificant person and what little i added to the Earths' dilemma really didnt matter.... i was so wrong to think that... ive since been able to understand how each of us is important in our own way and what each of us gives is powerful.... ive learned that my actions are something that i should consider carefully... it does have an impact... even if i only affect one person negatively, that person will affect others, and so on....... if it works in the case of negative energy, it must also work in its opposite direction... i began to be a little more positive... saying a positive thing when able... ive watched my own little world change... people are more considerate of me than before... it must be because i chose first to be considerate of them.. people have a hard time being rude and cruel if they are being treated with kindness and regard.... i chose to escape the circle i was in.. it wasnt doing me or anyone any good....... thank you (((tucker))))))))) may you rest in peace always.........
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Jun 04, 2008, 06:13 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
I_WMD said: Tuck is Right about the Push it To the limits [ end ]..... Days do get better ,,, if we find the moment that we see a glimps of >>>>>> Happiness. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> So true Wmd |
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#15
Jun 04, 2008, 06:17 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Clandestine said: Thanks for sharing this muffy. That struck me, about how he said for everyone of us to just live life, no matter how it hurts us. Damn. Just like what my friend said, "...you have everything to live for..." I may not realize what that "everything" is..but I think he's right. Awww, it brings me to tears..... <font color="purple">Clandestine</font> </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> (((Clandestine)))))))))))))))) Yes live life, care about ppl. push forward with all your heart , care about your self know that you matter that everyone matters that we all can make a difference Even if its just to break some of our own circle and move ahead,,,,, Once we do so we make it better for others.......... muffy |
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Jun 04, 2008, 06:18 PM
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((((((((((((((MyBestKids2 )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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#17
Jun 04, 2008, 06:33 PM
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Muffy thank you for sharing this with us..Tucker sounded like a very wise person.
I see so clearly what he is saying..I feel like I get to caught up in the negatives of everything to really enjoy life..that post was a wonderful reminder..Thank you so much Muffy. |
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#18
Jun 04, 2008, 06:35 PM
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((((((((nowheretorun))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
said "i wasnt kind enough to others... i failed to consider the effect of my own actions... i presumed i was a small and insignificant person and what little i added to the Earths' dilemma really didnt matter.... i was so wrong to think that... ive since been able to understand how each of us is important in our own way and what each of us gives is powerful.... ive learned that my actions are something that i should consider carefully... it does have an impact... even if i only affect one person negatively, that person will affect others, and so on....... if it works in the case of negative energy, it must also work in its opposite direction... i began to be a little more positive... saying a positive thing when able... ive watched my own little world change... people are more considerate of me than before... it must be because i chose first to be considerate of them.. people have a hard time being rude and cruel if they are being treated with kindness and regard.... --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Everyone is significant .......everyone can alter a path like you said weather it be yours , then someone elses in turn......... I try to be positive as much as possible......it does at times drive ppl a little nuts In turn learning to do things for other ppl I have learned to ask questions Sometimes to many.....but it does at times help other ppl and our earth.................... I agree that each one of us is powerful in our own way we each can make a impact As ((tucker))) did here at pc............. Kindness and caring and showing love is a great thing we can do for everyone ..................we matter, everyone on earth matters....everything does...........may we all look at each other and care..... I am now breaking my circle of to much work............ As i said I would do before...but somehow forgot or took me that long to break it.............. just the sheeps thoughts muffy |
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