[poe25]

how come i cant tell ppl i love them... my grandma died this dec and the first time i ever told her i love her is right before she passed.... she meant the world to me but i never told her... now i regret it so bad..... whats wrong with me......

[bebop]

some people are not raised to tell others they love them. could that be it?

[Julianne]

I can feel a lot of love toward lots of people but am only able to tell very important ones that I do verberly. It is a very hard emotion to express for some people.

Know that your grandmother felt your love because it was deep and words sometimes can't beat what you can feel and you know in your mind.

Nothing is wrong with you...... you are growing and if you want to change this about yourself.... simply seek to do it.

Juli

[PoppyDolly]

<font color="red"> </font> I think it is true, that some people who come from families that are not real demonstrative about their feelings, just don't feel comfortable with expressions of love or affection. However, if you are severly depressed, angry or your emotions are out of whack, you just may not be able to express love for ANYTHING for any reason AT THIS TIME. I don't think there is anything more wrong with you, than there is with anyone who is going through emotional issues. I am so sorry to hear of your Grandmother's passing, but BELIEVE that she KNOWS how much you love her. All is well with her, you have to believe that, because that is reality. Much love to YOU! ~Holly~

Some ppl can . some ppl can not...
Showing Love counts too
How we treat ppl how we care for them.
Sometimes just showing love is enough
Listening, showing peace and kindness sometimes is
as good as the words......................
Doing that extra for someone can show it...

You said
"my grandma died this dec and the first time i ever told her i love her is right before she passed.... she meant the world to me but i never told her"
You told her ...She knows.....she meant the world to you
I am sure she could see the love in your eyes.................
Know she can still hear you...............
Muffy

[hurtingintn]

hi poe..i dont think anything is wrong with you..i grew up in a family where hugs and emotions just were not verbally exercised or physically shown...my dad had a very serious heart attack 15 years ago and we had a second chance..to this day when we see each other there is not a single time that goes by that we dont hug, kiss and tell each other we love him..same for my mom...fortunately we had a second chance to express our feelings...sometimes it takes a tragedy for the feelings to be able to show..good luck hun and im sure she knew exactly how you feel towards her..my dad said he did even tho we never expressed it in any way