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Old Apr 30, 2009, 02:51 AM
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I am so mad but more then this I am so hurt
by the actions of a site admin
he took it upon himself to berate me in open forum
because I had the nerve to reply to one of his posts
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So lets see what did he do he called me awful names
sent me personnal e mails etc
said I was trying to change the rules of the site
when I was not....
so off he goes he banned me from my own site
and closed the board down saying "this board closed because
the owner is a game player"
who the heck is this guy man who gave him the right to do that
not me not any of the other admins.
He has gone to other sites and told lies about me
ugh why .
I am sorry if this is out of place I just want to scream and cry and
stamp my feet.
Thanks for listening I best go before I say something I should not.
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Old Apr 30, 2009, 03:17 AM
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Dusty...

I'm sorry you feel that you had a negative experience. I understand needing to talk, or vent, but IMO your post is not appropriate.

Obviously, the only people that know what happened are you and the Admin. There are two sides to each coin. Admin is usually very fair, patient, and helpful. Evidently they thought there was an issue and felt it necessary to take action.

If you have concerns with the way you were treated, I think it best that you discuss it with them and avoid posting this type of stuff on open forum as this does not concern anyone else but you and admin.

Wishing you well...
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Old Apr 30, 2009, 03:23 AM
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Sorry this was not here at this site
and the "admin" from there will not speak with me
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Old Apr 30, 2009, 03:41 AM
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Some sites' people are not very friendly or mature, ~~dusty~~. But then, that is what you have discovered...
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Old Apr 30, 2009, 12:50 PM
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First, I love your name for some reason... I've not seen many usernames with "~" in them.

I'm sorry you had such a bad experience!! That sounds horrible... is there anyone at all that you can contact, to get your site up and running again? How did they gain access to it to shut it down?

Some people say mean things on the internet... I think it has something to do with people not always accepting that others on the other side behind a computer screen are people too. Or else some people just like to go on power trips to ruin other people's lives. I've come across that on a blogging site I'm a part of, in different communities there. It never fails to amaze me how some people can treat each other.
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Old Apr 30, 2009, 01:09 PM
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I Am So Mad

~~Dusty~~ I'm sorry you're upset, I sent you this little screaming buddy to keep you company. I hope you are able to work things out or at least come to a compromise with this guy.
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" I don't wanna be the girl that has to fill the silence.
The quiet scares me 'cause it screams the truth.
Please don't tell me that we had that conversation,
'Cause I won't remember, save your breath 'cause what's the use?

Aahh, the night is calling, and it whispers to me softly,
"Come and play". Aahh, I am falling, and if I let myself go
I'm the only one to blame.

I'm safe, up high, nothing can touch me, but why do I feel
this party's over?
No pain, inside, you're like perfection, but how do I feel
this good sober?"
(From the song "Sober", by Pink)
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Old Apr 30, 2009, 01:11 PM
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Welcome to PC ... you won't have those types of antics much around here.

There is one particular "support site" that has admin just like you described. Best stay away from there, and be here.

But we do have some guidelines to help you fit in. If you have an issue (rather than a legitimate question) with something admin is doing or saying, then you do need to PM them. We try to keep our disagreements private, so as not to trigger or upset the rest of the site.
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Old Apr 30, 2009, 02:53 PM
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~~Dusty~~

I wanted to apologize...

I thought you were speaking about an issue you had with PC.
I saw your 2nd post this morning and realized that you were referring to a different site.

My apologies...

PC is great. Admin do a really great job here and are very fair.
I hope you find that you have a better experience here, and that you get your other site back up and running.

Take care
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Old Apr 30, 2009, 03:12 PM
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I just visited your website Dusty and it looked very nice, have you managed to sort out the problems there now?

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