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Unhappy Dec 31, 2014 at 04:44 PM
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I felt I had to post this today. I am so so lost as I had to put my best friend down today. I know a lot of people don't appreciate animals, but I do. I prefer them to people. They never lie, they love you unconditionally and are loyal to their core. My baby girl was 15, nearly 16 and was everything to me. She too had some issues throughout her life. She had a lot of aggression and was incredibly feisty. She was my baby, so was perfect in my eyes. I accepted her, and she accepted me. Who will accept me now? She had no agenda, no ulterior motif, just me. I loved you Squig & always will. 1999 - 2014. (Border collie) ;
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Default Dec 31, 2014 at 04:50 PM
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It's never easy....wow, she lived a good long life! Hugs to you. Been there too many times.
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I am so sorry to hear it!! My heart goes out to you! Animals are amazing. I also prefer them to people!! Stay strong! I know how hard it is but you'll get through it! Hugs!

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Default Dec 31, 2014 at 04:53 PM
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JoBo....my condolences. My best friend is also a Border Collie. They are worth every bit of their quirkiness. hugs.
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many comforting (((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))) for you ♥♥♥
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So sorry for your loss
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My sincere condolences on your loss, JoBo.
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♡♡♡♡ so sorry for your loss...
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry. They really are our fur children who take up big space in our hearts.
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Default Dec 31, 2014 at 07:15 PM
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Words aren't enough at times like these. I feel like you do about animals and while I have two that are 14, I know that the time with them is growing to a close.

My heart goes out to you. I know what a lose like that means. I've lost several beloved furbabies in my life. Just know that it takes time to get through the grief.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I've gone through this and it is every bit as difficult as losing a human loved one.
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This is a huge loss and all the harder for coming on a holiday. I'm so sorry this happened.
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I'm so sorry for your loss...
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So very sorry for your loss
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{*{*{*{*{JoBo*}*}*}*}

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I'm so sorry.
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Just wanted to add my condolences. I know what you're going through and feel so bad for you.
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I felt I had to post this today. I am so so lost as I had to put my best friend down today. I know a lot of people don't appreciate animals, but I do. I prefer them to people. They never lie, they love you unconditionally and are loyal to their core. My baby girl was 15, nearly 16 and was everything to me. She too had some issues throughout her life. She had a lot of aggression and was incredibly feisty. She was my baby, so was perfect in my eyes. I accepted her, and she accepted me. Who will accept me now? She had no agenda, no ulterior motif, just me. I loved you Squig & always will. 1999 - 2014. (Border collie) ;
Hello JoBo-

I am so, so sorry for your loss of your dear friend, Squig. I know how painful it is-I lost my baby girl-she was the same age as your little one when she passed. They are little furry angels and as much love and happiness that they bring us, losing them is just as devastating. Please take good care of yourself and know that you are not alone.

Sending you hugs.
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Sorry you lost your best friend, sending you hugs.
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