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Procrastinator: I wait and maybe discuss the conflict later, at a better time. 1 4.00%
Procrastinator: I wait and maybe discuss the conflict later, at a better time.
1 4.00%
Communicator: I talk with the person directly. 6 24.00%
Communicator: I talk with the person directly.
6 24.00%
Avoider: I stay out of conflict if at all possible. 6 24.00%
Avoider: I stay out of conflict if at all possible.
6 24.00%
Intimidator: I keep pushing my point until they back down. 1 4.00%
Intimidator: I keep pushing my point until they back down.
1 4.00%
Negotiator: I look for commonalities between the people in conflict. 4 16.00%
Negotiator: I look for commonalities between the people in conflict.
4 16.00%
I don't know 2 8.00%
I don't know
2 8.00%
Other 5 20.00%
Other
5 20.00%
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Old Jan 12, 2007, 06:33 PM
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I've been asking around to the people close to me and I find out that all the females that I've talked to have had a great personality change when turning 30.
So, I'm not saying is not possible in males, but I wanted to know if this has happened to you.
Feel free to answer, either male or female and if you want to expand yourself go ahead, I'm curious. I'm giving it a week worth of answers.
So here goes:
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Old Jan 12, 2007, 06:43 PM
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Yes, but I had also gone through a major major life change -- an involuntary and unexpected divorce.

Nevertheless, I am much more centered, clear, and strong in my 30s than I was in my 20s.

Good question!
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Old Jan 12, 2007, 06:57 PM
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LMo, thanks for your vote and I know so many people goes thru "big" changes.
Good for you, I feel the same about my 30's.
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Old Jan 13, 2007, 02:50 AM
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Nevertheless, I am much more centered, clear, and strong in my 30s than I was in my 20s.

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LMO~ I couldn't have said it any better. That's the perfect answer to this question Quick poll
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Old Jan 13, 2007, 06:24 AM
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{{{{{{{{{{Jlove}}}}}}}}}}}} Thanks hon~
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Old Jan 14, 2007, 11:53 AM
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Oh My, so it seems I wasn't the only one, good, please keep voting.
Thanks!
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Old Jan 15, 2007, 03:38 PM
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I'm bumping it, bevuase it is amazing how many of us have had the same thing going on~
Thank you all!
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Old Jan 18, 2007, 05:39 PM
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Ohh my, the numbers had changed!
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I don't think age had anything to do with it for me. I was on auto-pilot all the way through the first half of my thirties...then some major things happened and that's when the "land-slide" of awareness, turmoil and change started. Some change was very slow with improving my situation and some change hasn't been for the better - Quick poll Quick poll as I struggle in coping with things that I used to just dissociate through.......

I think it's great if some have noticed a change or perhaps awareness in their personality when turning 30, gives one plenty of time for an improved life...... guess though, for some of us other people--- better late than never Quick poll

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