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#1
Jul 27, 2006, 10:57 PM
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I just wrote a long post about me. About who I am. About why I am so sad.
And then I deleted it. Why? Because I suffer from Avoidant Personnality Disorder. |
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#2
Jul 27, 2006, 11:02 PM
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Sweet Time0--- I do understand............
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#3
Jul 28, 2006, 10:05 AM
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Thank you (((((((((((Mandy)))))))))))
I know you understand. |
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#5
Jul 28, 2006, 11:43 AM
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(((((((timeo))))))) I did the same thing late last night. I posted two things actually, (about the same subject) and I ended up deleting one of them. I tried to delete the second one, but it was too late. I have decided to let it stay anyway because it is how I feel. I don't want to hide anymore, I want to share, I just feel like I'm taking up space when I post about personal things. Also I feel vulnerable when I let myself open up like that.
I don't know a whole lot about Avoidant Personality Disorder, but I do know how hard it can be to open up. I hope you will be able to post again about yourself when and if you feel comfortable. Sujin
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#6
Jul 28, 2006, 10:48 PM
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(((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))
Thank you! |
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#7
Jul 28, 2006, 10:54 PM
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The best thing is to not hide so you are on the right track. I don't think that you are taking too much space. If you can share, go for it.
I know that talking about your pain and hurt is the right thing to do. I have share some but I still hide a lot. Maybe one day I will get to that point. Maybe. (((((((((Sujin))))))))) Thank you! |
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#10
Jul 30, 2006, 08:02 AM
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something must be shifting if you wrote it in the first place. I cant even bare to think about "me" these days. Avoidant?..................................................im deaf, dumb and blind
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 good things come to those who wait, and wait and wait |
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#11
Jul 31, 2006, 08:55 PM
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Every hurt goes straight to my heart but then I block it deep down and I keep going.
Thank you! |
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#12
Aug 01, 2006, 09:08 PM
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Me? I am but a simple weed in a far away unknown land.
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#14
Aug 03, 2006, 11:37 AM
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Weeds are friends of Petunias.
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#15
Aug 04, 2006, 02:04 PM
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<font color="purple">((((time0)))) I have done that sevreal times myself.... Then I decided to keep what I write in a journal for my own viewing and then if I feel like later posting it here I do.... Not sure why i do that... but some how I find comfort in having it written down for when I or if I decide to share...
Sharing about oneself can be difficult becuase it makes us feel vulnerable and attached fears..... Know that you are cared about and when you are ready to share more we are here to listen and support.... </font> .gif)
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Melinda  Today, NOW! Is the time to tell that someone you love them.....  because tomorrow just might be too late! 
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#16
Aug 07, 2006, 01:38 PM
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Why I don't post much about myself?
First of all because since the day I was born I wasn't important in the eyes of others. My feelings and my security didn't mean nothing to others.( that includes also in the eyes of my familly of birth). As an adult I was also rejected many times. Why? Maybe you will not believe this part of me but I am strong. I have great determination, uplifting spirit and my meaning of life is so very important to me. It takes a lot to bring me down but I do go down because I also meet people that are stronger then me with mean words and abusive ways. Rejection is something that always hit me hard. Always. Also I don't say too much because I have been hurt online very much. So much that it almost brought me to suicide. (Not on this site). I'm still having trouble accepting this part of my online experience. It almost destroyed me because I have put too much of my heart in it. Way too much! I have also gotten stuck online because I came to close to someone, a man. What I didn't reliased is that man has fallen in love with me. For me he was just a friend. But it got out of hand. He traced my IP addy and he found out exactly where I live. He wanted to come to my home even me insisting that no and no. He was obcessed with me. My husband would have kill me. That man was putting me in danger. I had to moved. Now with me being rejected as a child, rejected as aldult and my bad experiences online, I don't trust. I do say things here and there about myself because sometime I go so down and I do need you all. My appreciation to all of you is huge and I'm always thankful for all of you for being so patient with me. Thank you all! |
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#17
Aug 08, 2006, 07:58 PM
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((((((((Time0)))))))
We appreciate you too Time0. You're always quick with a hug and a kind word. So, THANK YOU!!!! 
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#18
Aug 09, 2006, 01:42 AM
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(((time0))) I should take the time more often to tell you when I see your posts up in General and Kudos , how much I REALLY appreciate them and your poems. I usually read and move on but I think that is my mistake. You may need to know how much you ARE valued. Like when you had a post on a word a hug or even a smiley means something to people I took that to heart but didn't post a thanks in your thread so you knew. I am sorry for that
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