[skittles]

made my mom cry once again today...... i dont mean to but she just says things that annoy me and i end up yelling at her.... i feel bad for doing it ... u would think by now they would know when to back off but they just keep comin and comin....

you are under alot of pressure right now... try not to be so hard on yourself... your Grandma..

and finding out what your DX is.. all that is very new to you.. and you need some adjustment time..

your title said "mean", how about changing that to being human.. and being stressed...

[FnordianSlip]

i used to have that sort of relationship with my mother. since, i've explained to her that i have periods when my threshold for annoyance is very low. now whenever she starts to get on my nerves i calmly say, "i don't want to discuss this now." it's my signal to her that further progression in the direction she is headed would lead to an unpleasant outburst on my part. she backs right off.

[skittles]

yeah i usually tell my mom just leave me alone or not right now and shes says ok but sometimes i dont catch myself

<font color="#000088">I'd count your blessings that your Mom atleast has enough respect to back off when you ask her to! When you remember to anyway! Mine would purposely wait until I was as upset as I could be, and then ambush me! There was no backing off, even when I'd tell her to leave me alone, she'd just get even louder, and more violent! But I did make her cry, even though she deserved every bit of it.
But don't be so hard on yourself for being so stressed, and accidently taking it out on those around you, on occasion!
I'm not hard on myself for what I did, making my Mom cry, because she deserved worse! </font>