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Old Aug 08, 2007, 05:40 PM
lyndy lyndy is offline
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I am 20, and now i feel that sex is DISGUSTING. Sometime i even want to throw up when my friends mention those horrible stuffs about sex to me. I used to have sex about over a year ago with my ex-bf . But i had never enjoyed it even once. And whenever i think about it, i feel i hate myself, i hate being a human that have to do these DISGUSTING stuffs.
Is it normal to be feeling like this? I'm worrying about my future, the marriage life...

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Old Aug 12, 2007, 08:27 PM
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I'm sure that it isn't typical to be that disgusted about sex as you mature, but you're far from alone either. I wonder if the person you were with before might have not been the right one for you, or you just weren't ready, and that might have something to do with it. Or, is it possible that you were reminded of being exposed to sex some other time when you were not ready? Might there be some feelings telling you that you are not allowed to enjoy it, maybe because you feel guilty, or there is a conflict with values? My point is that there is probably a reason for your reaction - not necessarily any of these, but there is probably something there.
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Old Aug 13, 2007, 09:14 PM
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Welcome Lyndy...sorry things seem to be so rough...just wanted to let you know that I read your post...

Post again when you can...
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Old Aug 14, 2007, 10:36 PM
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to answer your question,no...I don't believe that's normal.
 
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