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Old Aug 28, 2009, 07:35 PM
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and feeling guilty for posting so many new threads
"should" I hide away and be quiet?
this forum seems very quiet, is that my "fault"
or is that more gigo, I'm thinking it probably is
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Old Aug 28, 2009, 07:49 PM
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((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))) it's ok to post all you want...so we can support you, friend, like you do us!

And this forum is maybe sometimes quite...but coz you taught...me for one...all about GIGO

Please don't ever go quiet and hide...I'd miss you, friend
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Old Aug 28, 2009, 08:07 PM
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We are here for you. You can post anytime.

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Old Aug 28, 2009, 10:00 PM
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Post as often as you like! This forum is for everyone who has PTSD! So, share with us what is going on in you life that is causing your trauma or stress so that we may be able to help you.

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Old Aug 29, 2009, 07:47 AM
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what happening with you friend? let me know or say it here ok -we are here to help if we can ok

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Old Aug 29, 2009, 10:17 AM
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and feeling guilty for posting so many new threads
"should" I hide away and be quiet?
this forum seems very quiet, is that my "fault"
or is that more gigo, I'm thinking it probably is
No, Fuzzy, it's not your fault
most likely mine for believing there would be room for something outside the box.

GIGO, as I stated long ago, only works when we allow it to...no matter how many times per hour/day/week we need to use it.
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 10:27 AM
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Old Aug 30, 2009, 08:37 PM
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dont' think there is room here for blame.
blame for what? things being quiet? ppl not posting??
its the ebb and flow of the seasons.....
i myself have much to process right now.
words are not available for the deep feelings.

so, i ebb away a bit.
no one's fault--my own stuff.

leave bats and fault finder in the closet
or bring for the fed ex man who has an empty truck
and ready to fill it

love you both
love you all
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Old Aug 30, 2009, 09:16 PM
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the see saw goes up and down

some sit quietly in class listening..

others speak

i is what it should be - give and take when you can and as needs arise

no fault - no blame - no box' no bats .....just support and love

where am i? in a dark place wiht dark toughts......body memories and memories slip into my head and tell me should haves....

should have told
should have fought
should have shouted for help

my alter ego Ally (creative corner) usually manages to rise above it but she is drowning too....self pity?.... despair? dont know....

nothingness..............

I fel like the power is off and the battereis are almost flat.......
lights were on and nobody home - now the ppoeer is going and the lights will soon be out...

I have been on this dark path before

i just have to remember how i got off lol

my love and hope is sent out to you all
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Old Aug 30, 2009, 09:29 PM
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Old Aug 30, 2009, 09:30 PM
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should have told
should have fought
should have shouted for help
Remind me, please -- what does "should" mean?
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Old Aug 31, 2009, 12:33 AM
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the see saw goes up and down
it's a helluva ride, P7, but you will get your feet on the ground and get off of it...you'll find the best time to do. I have faith in you, my friend
some sit quietly in class listening..
others speak
taking turns is a natural for us
i is what it should be - give and take when you can and as needs arise
no fault - no blame - no box' no bats .....just support and love


where am i? in a dark place wiht dark toughts......body memories and memories slip into my head and tell me should haves....
should have told
should have fought
should have shouted for help
Hind sight will always kick our butts if we let it. It's right up there with guilt and shame. We look back at something that totally surprised us, we had no time for planing any escape; yet we blame ourselves.
Be kinder to yourself, P7. You had no control over what happened to you...you do have control now, though. No matter how small it is, it still a relief.
jmo, but posting about it is starting to gain control over it...perhaps by not keeping the secret any longer, there is a small but valuable empowerment happening within you?

In Peace

my alter ego Ally (creative corner) usually manages to rise above it but she is drowning too....self pity?.... despair? dont know....

nothingness..............

I fel like the power is off and the battereis are almost flat.......
P7, we tire of the struggling and think it will never end...hang onto that thought...it's true, ya know.
lights were on and nobody home - now the ppoeer is going and the lights will soon be out...

I have been on this dark path before
i just have to remember how i got off lol
FedEx man is on his way to deliver a big and beautiful flashlight so you can see the light out of there. If the flash light dims? Sending my backup to you also...

my love and hope is sent out to you all
P7, we love you too.
Our paths are parallel; many of pull into a "rest stop" when we get overwhelmed with blaming ourselves...
Rest stops aren't so bad, what brings us there is
We rest and rise up and walk again.

In Peace
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Old Aug 31, 2009, 01:36 AM
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Not your fault. I too notice this forum runs a bit quieter, but I don't believe this has anything to do with you. I think it's just the sign of the PTSD. It encompasses so many things such as depression, dissociation, abuse, anxiety, etc., and I think that people post in these other places sometimes for their specific issues and not so often here in PTSD forum. Just my thinking...but I'm 100% certain it is not you.

May I ask.....what is GIGO?
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Old Aug 31, 2009, 01:48 AM
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May I ask.....what is GIGO?
There's a full discussion here, Elysium.
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Old Aug 31, 2009, 09:34 AM
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Wickipedia does not cover the use of it as a tool in therapy.

Much garbage goes into us when we are growing up, and many times in adulthood. We work at getting that garbage out when we start on our paths of healing.
Garbage In-Garbage Out...GIGO
Hearing tapes from the past; replace them with more positive tapes.
What goes in does not have to stay in.

Use of this term as a tool of therapy was adapted some years ago...it's helped people to visualize "taking out the garbage" we may carry in our minds.

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Old Aug 31, 2009, 08:50 PM
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I have been a way for a little while because of moving and lack of internet access. It is not about you! I agree with the others that sometimes things here ebb and flow. You should post whenever you want to.
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 10:57 AM
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I have never heard of GIGO. We can change the out part if we come to understand how the in part affected us...........
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