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hi friendly people...
i think i'm becoming weird as days go by. i'm being bothered by a consistent statement of a male classmate. i don't know if he's just kidding around or saying a truth about me. he keeps on telling that i'm good at making up stories. i kept on wondering what i had said to make him say that. i don't react immediately after he said those words, but i do when he's not around or with anybody or when we meet again some other time. and i know it's not appropriate anymore because i would slightly hurt him physically out of nowhere, then laugh at me again because i can't give any reason why i am doing that. the others react by laughing also. i'd go numb at times just not to feel hurt when i'm being fooled. i don't know how to act in that particular situation. it happens all the time. can anyone teach me how to deal with this? |
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Hey krazee, is this person saying this again and again, or are you just replaying it in your mind? If he's saying it, take him aside and ask why he thinks so... of course, with PTSD there is dissociation, and when we say things at that point, then later deny it or well, you know, not know we said it... that could be like making up stories, right?
<font color=green>...I can misspeak like the best of us</font color=green>
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what do you mean by you would slightly hurt him physically out of nowhere? Have you tried laughing also? It might help if you act like it's no big deal. It sounds like these people are very inmature, but I don't think they are laughing at you, as much as they are laughing at something you did. Just don't let it get to you too much. Everyone does things we regret, so next time people laugh, just try to think to yourself that they aren't perfect either. So who cares about them? If people don't want to accept you then it's their lost, not yours. But, I would try laughing with them, if they ask you why you are laughing, tell them because you think it's funny also. Eventually they would most likely get tired of it, or just think that your response to their laughter is annoying, so they will stop.
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hey.
People laugh when they are nervous or dont know what else to do. My ex-wife calls me an idiot to my face....but she also thinks I'm just wonderful guy... You can't expect ppl to be serious all the time. Maybe you are a good story teller?? |
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