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Old Feb 09, 2007, 10:58 AM
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We hate our birthday, it brings back all the worst memories.
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Old Feb 09, 2007, 12:52 PM
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I hear you dear ((((((((((((((( Zorah ))))))))))))))))

Please take care,
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Old Feb 09, 2007, 04:35 PM
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Birthdays ((((((((((((((((( Zorahs )))))))))))))))))))) Birthdays

Try to do something you enjoy... and replace the bad memories with good. Birthdays
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Old Feb 10, 2007, 12:25 AM
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Old Feb 10, 2007, 10:17 AM
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(((Zorah)))

I am so sorry.

Yet... I am so glad you are here. Birthdays

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Old Feb 14, 2007, 11:13 PM
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Old Feb 14, 2007, 11:14 PM
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I agree, make plans for a NEW type of celebration instead! who wants to count birthdays anyway? (((hugs)))
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Old Feb 20, 2007, 10:57 PM
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Zorah instead of Birthdays have friend-days celebrate with all of us
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Old Feb 26, 2007, 04:26 AM
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(((((((((Zorah))))))))) I hope you managed to be able to be kind to yourself in some way.

Having a big problem. My abuser's ("family" member's) birthday is next Sunday. Will trigger me big time. Trying to think of things to do to distract me, but really very frightened anticipating the event. I think it's already triggering me....

Sometimes I truly wish my brain came w/ a 'delete' button.

Don't want to experience the day.

** Petrified **

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Old Feb 26, 2007, 08:16 PM
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ohhhh .... I'm so sorry... birthdays bring back the worse of memories sometimes...

A couple of years ago, I stopped acknowledging my b-day and now I pick another day and it is a "have fun" day - it isn't even the same day every year...

it made me happier...

((((((hugs))))) freewill
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Old Mar 07, 2007, 08:38 PM
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It's good to know I'm not the only one that hates birthdays. I was raped on my 16th birthday. My son was born the day before my rapist birthday. When my friend came to see me when he was born she said "good thing it was today and not tomorrow or he would share the same birthday as *******."
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