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Mar 01, 2016, 09:45 PM
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Last Thursday I had sex for the first time. I wasn't thinking straight at all. I have been sexually assaulted before, and since last week I have been really upset even though this was consensual. I know I need to talk about this with my therapist but I don't know if I will if she has to tell my parents.
So my question is, if I tell my therapist that I lost my virginity will she have to tell my parents? I am a 15 yr old female and he had just turned 16 yrs old the week before. I am turning 16 yrs old in 3 weeks. The age of consent in my state is 16. I have known him for 2-3 yrs and we both had never had sex before. He wore a condom and it didn't break. I have an eating disorder and my period is irregular but I bought a pregnancy test anyway and I will do it in a few days just to see. I might go to Planned Parenthood and get STD test done just to be sure (I have horrible anxiety about this crap) We aren't a couple and honestly we hadn't even been talking except for the past 2 weeks. It just kinda happened. This is just some info if it may help answer the question. Because of my trauma I am having some stuff come up that I need to talk about but I CANNOT have my mother know about this. So does anybody know if my therapist would have to tell my mom if I talked to her about this? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
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Past Diagnoses- Separation Anxiety, Anorexia Nervosa, Bulimia Nervosa, Compulsive Overeating Disorder, EDNOS (Eating Disorder Not Otherwise Specified-DSM IV) Current Diagnoses- Major Depressive Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, ADHD, OCD, OSFED (Otherwise Specified Feeding or Eating Disorder-DSM V) Panic Disorder, PTSD, possible Bipolar II and Borderline Personality Disorder (cant have diagnosis due to insurance reasons) Past Rx- Prozac, Lexapro, Zoloft, Adderall, Paxil, Lithium, Strattera, Valium Current Rx- Wellbutrin, Lamictal, Vistiril, Omega 3 mood stabilizer (experimental) |
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Mar 02, 2016, 12:18 AM
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I do not know enough about the law to answer your question; my guess is yes since it is 3 weeks before your 16th birthday your T would have to report statutory rape to the law and your legal guardian. Could you talk to someone in chat or on a hotline (sexual assault flashbacks/current situation stresses can be anonoymous on DV/rape hotlines) right now to get help faster. Lots of ladies need some support both for an important event as consenting to lose your virginity or worry about results from that decision. The hotline staff can help review expected sexual trauma responses and how they are "stirred up" when new experiences "rearrange" our current feelings/needs.
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Mar 09, 2016, 12:50 PM
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Aww how cute, you and your therapist must be close! Hopefully, your first consensual time will replace the horrible assault...
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