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Cherophobia is the fear of being happy ? here are the signs you might have it | Markets Insider
While this challenge is not in the DSM, it's definitely something a person can struggle with and can be something that develops either in early childhood or when a person experiences trauma/traumas where something they created, loved, that made them happy is taken or destroyed. It's definitely one of the symptoms of PTSD. |
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in other words on the files a treatment provider writes down something like Amanda louise has an anxiety disorder that is the specific phobia of (insert name of phobia) there are literally thousands of "phobia's" that are covered by this, I have a few of my own that are not so common. Im guessing for the APA to list every single one instead of having one coverall diagnostic label, where treatment providers write in the specific phobia, they would have had to write a whole new book for just phobia's. |
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Not so much now but I guess I still do to a small degree. |
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Sounds like something my son and i experience, we are happy on the outside but dying inside.
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Is it actually a fear like if you feel a little happy you freak out like someone freaks out over a spider or is it that us children of trauma never learned how to be happy? As my husband says to me, "You know what you problem is? You never learned how to be happy."
My therapist has asked what makes me happy. I always respond it is not happy it is more just being at peace. Peace in my internal furnace of emotions. Calm emotions and a feeling of safety. To me that is being happy.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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