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Old Jan 04, 2009, 05:02 PM
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i hate me
i hate me
i hate me
i hate me
i hate me
i hate me
i hate me
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Old Jan 04, 2009, 05:10 PM
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I'm so sorry that you are so unhappy right now. I hope soon you will be able to see that you don't deserve your hatred. What happened to make you feel like that today?
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Old Jan 04, 2009, 05:18 PM
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I'm so sorry that you are so unhappy right now. I hope soon you will be able to see that you don't deserve your hatred. What happened to make you feel like that today?
fighting
fighting

pictures

fighting

i want to just go far away
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Old Jan 04, 2009, 05:25 PM
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I know the feeling of wanting to go far away. Maybe you can try to do something with the memories and pictures. Could you write about them and then tear them up? Could you try to focus on one thing in the room you are in, really focus on it and notice every detail until only that thought is in your mind and not the fighting and pictures and memories? Or maybe you could find a box, any kind of box, and either concentrate on putting the bad thoughts in there or write them and put them in the box? I wish peace for you tonight and always.
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Old Jan 04, 2009, 05:27 PM
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I know the feeling of wanting to go far away. Maybe you can try to do something with the memories and pictures. Could you write about them and then tear them up? Could you try to focus on one thing in the room you are in, really focus on it and notice every detail until only that thought is in your mind and not the fighting and pictures and memories? Or maybe you could find a box, any kind of box, and either concentrate on putting the bad thoughts in there or write them and put them in the box? I wish peace for you tonight and always.
i will try to look at something
can't do memories... no no no
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Old Jan 04, 2009, 05:30 PM
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Ok, I'm sorry, I thought memories were what was upsetting you. Only do what you can. Focusing on one thing very intensley until that is the only thing in your mind is a good thing to do.
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Old Jan 04, 2009, 05:31 PM
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Ok, I'm sorry, I thought memories were what was upsetting you. Only do what you can. Focusing on one thing very intensley until that is the only thing in your mind is a good thing to do.
memories hurt
pictures hurt
it all hurts

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Old Jan 04, 2009, 05:36 PM
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sighHere's a pillow and blanket for you lay safely down and rest and remove the hurt.
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Old Jan 04, 2009, 05:44 PM
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I am sorry you feel bad. You are a good and beautiful person.
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Old Jan 04, 2009, 06:17 PM
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sighHere's a pillow and blanket for you lay safely down and rest and remove the hurt.
thank you.... you are so nice
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Old Jan 04, 2009, 06:18 PM
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Get some rest, sweety. Be gentle on you.
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sleep can be such a healer - take care P7
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(((((((((((( soulfulgrrl ))))))))))))))

I am sending you lots of soft warm safe hugs.
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Old Jan 05, 2009, 02:24 AM
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Soulfulgrrl,

I passed a magic wand in a circle and wished for you a peaceful rest.

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