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#26
Apr 23, 2009, 08:28 AM
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((((((((((((((((Kaika))))))))))))))))
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#27
Apr 23, 2009, 09:41 PM
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My excuses:
1. My dad doesn't really believe in Therapy. I mean, he really cares so he'll do it...but he is going to drag his feet on it forever so generally this stuff gets passed onto my mom and step dad who.... 2. I don't know anymore. They've changed SO much since they became christian folk that I don't know if they'd actually pursue it since I've raised the concerns (twice) or if they'd just want me to go to church with them or something. There has always been a lack of communication about these things...I'll talk about it, they say they'll work on it, then nothing for months and I think maybe they aren't doing anything at all and then they give me a little mini-update on what's going on with said situation. 3. I would do thing myself but I'm still pretty dependent on my parents for things. It doesn't help that it's really, really hard for me to even hint at these sorts of things offline anyways. I could go to the school but there is just not that much time in the day (my schedule is pretty packed) and I get the feeling that if I did then they (as in my counselor people for my 504 and not the school psychologist) would just start asking too many questions that I don't really want to answer. |
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#28
Apr 24, 2009, 11:53 AM
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I'm glad that you called them excuses Kaika!
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#29
May 03, 2009, 09:11 PM
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Yes, I thought the usage of the word was both accurate and clever....
The first half of the day was sort of crap. My parent's watched TV preachers. I find them really offensive. They make me GRRRRRRR. Things came around though and the day got better. I finally bought the "Lucky Cat" for my room. (Se my posts in my room in games for more info on "lucky cats") BUT!it doesn't last long though of course. I guess a day that starts like crap ends like crap. I'm not is any such mood to really converse with head voices and I'm not in any such mood to practically gag at the ways I'm feeling at the moment (nothing new, just new levels). But too bad I guess.  |
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#30
May 03, 2009, 09:15 PM
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#31
May 03, 2009, 09:38 PM
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Hope things get better for you soon and that you can find a T to help you too
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts  its how many times you get back up!   (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture  )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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#32
May 03, 2009, 09:45 PM
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I'm probably going to remind my mom tomorrow (if I remember) so she doesn't get the impression that because I'm acting pretty much normally that it's not something that I'm interested in anymore.
...which is not something I'm looking forward to...it's hard enough just to express it once, let alone multiple times like I've been having to  I don't know why it is so hard for me to express these things at the moment...but it really is. |
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#33
May 03, 2009, 09:48 PM
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Good luck
By the way - love your avatar and pics - kits are soooooo cute
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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#34
May 03, 2009, 09:50 PM
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thanks
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#35
May 04, 2009, 09:17 AM
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Kaika, we all had to learn to get good at expressing ourselves! The only way to get better is to keep doing it!
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#36
May 04, 2009, 08:44 PM
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So, I talked to her again tonight with no real problems (woo hoo...) she said she had been thinking about that too, but she has been really preoccupied lately...you know, her mom/my grandma dying of cancer and all. That's understandable and I told her that.
Still no definitive time table, but at least I know they havn't forgotten. |
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#37
May 05, 2009, 12:19 PM
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Good Work Kaika!
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#38
May 07, 2009, 09:09 PM
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I guess that did the trick, because my mom got a phone call today and it was apparently from my new T
 I forgot the name, but apparently my new T is a guy...which actually I was hoping for as I was contemplating today... She wanted to know what I wanted to accomplish by going into therapy...well, I just told her that's not something I'm really comfortable talking about because well...it isn't. And I asked her why she wanted to know to begin with. For a moment I thought she didn't like the idea of psychology anymore because of her faith or something. But it was just making sure that I knew that being in therapy means that he's not going to fix anything, just help me fix myself and stuff...well...not those exact words of course...but that was the meaning of what she was saying. |
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#39
May 08, 2009, 12:29 AM
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Yeah!!! progress!!!
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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#40
May 08, 2009, 03:48 AM
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That's great news, kaika!
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#41
May 08, 2009, 06:07 PM
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Kaika, this is the best news! It happened because you focused and worked on it. Good Work!!!!!!
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#42
May 08, 2009, 07:39 PM
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Thanks everyone
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#43
May 10, 2009, 11:04 PM
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Dang it, not a lot of things I find triggering but that doesn't make it any less awful when it happens. Even worse when you don't know what triggers you yet or why and just happen to read something that is triggering when you'd normally read a lot worse things and be fine
 (Read a post that I shouldn't have)
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#44
May 12, 2009, 09:57 AM
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You can learn these things........
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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May 12, 2009, 07:08 PM
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and get past it
__________________
Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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#46
May 14, 2009, 10:24 PM
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Thanks
Getting those feelings again tonight. It's difficult for me to describe how I'm feeling at the moment... It's more upsetting then scary really |
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May 15, 2009, 02:41 AM
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__________________
Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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#48
May 31, 2009, 10:27 PM
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This is now night #2 where I don't want to go to bed.
My dreams are okay, it's the trying to fall asleep part that's bad 
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#49
Jun 01, 2009, 01:08 AM
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Kaika,
Here's hoping you were able to sleep better this night. Hunny
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#50
Jun 05, 2009, 12:41 AM
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(((((((((((((Kaika)))))))))))))))
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