[grainsofsand]

Last fall I considered taking Effexor but was concerned about side effects so before I began anything I tried to exercise, etc. I began to feel so much better. Now I'm not so sure anymore. How do you know if medication is necessary or you're just going through a bad patch that will pass?

[somebodyelse]

I rely on my pdoc to advise me about my meds. My own "bad patch" has lasted 21/2 years so far, and I couldn't have made it this far without my meds.

How serious are your symptoms? Do you have a pdoc?

[jmo531]

Grainsofsand,

This is a great question. I too thought about that myself. I was given Paxil my my Primary Doc last October. I took it 3 days and thought that my symptoms were worse then before. As the weeks went on, my anxiety and depression spiraled out of control. The next thing I knew I was in the ER begging to be comitted to a mental hospital because I could no longer handle the feelings that were going on inside of me. I had lost myself. I was so down and low i couldnt picture my future. I thougt my children and husband were better off without me. The hospital never did take me. They sent me home with some Ambien and told me to see my Primary Doc again. Primary Doc prescribed Effexor XR but referred me out to a T and Pdoc for f/u care such as therapy and Med checks and such. For me, I knew that I could no longer handle life with out help. I knew with in 2 weeks of taking the effexor that it saved me. I dont know if I would be here right now. I really dont. That is how weak and scared I was. It's different for everyone. Only you know yourself and your mind. If you think you do, then do. If not, then don't. Keep in mind, just because your taking meds for now. Doesnt mean you'll be taking hem forever. If you decide to take med's I think it's just as important to seek therapy. A combo. Drugs dont cure everything. It's changing your behavior and outlook that will carry you through your life. Good luck to you and keep us posted.