[fitgal37]

anyone out there, I am on so many meds such as: concerta, prozac, risperadol, and Buspar can anyone help me of how to get my intimacy issues fixed. i feel like i am a dead robot. I have thought about taking myself off my meds just for this reason. I am so unhappy that my husband cant connect at the same time.

[Rhapsody]

Dear FitGal, ((((((( HUGS )))))))

I can sympathize with you, for I have been where you are at right now.... I found that it helped me to enjoy the time I spent with my husband if I connected with him on an emotional level outside of the bedroom.... we both took an active part in each other's interest, for (men bond while doing activities) - (woman bond while talking & sharing their life).

Then when the time came for us to be sexual with each other - I did not place my interest (or goal) upon having to achieve an "O" in order to call the moment an success.... in stead I just relaxed and enjoyed being touched and kissed, with or without the big "O"

Hope this HELPS.............................

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

[red_rose]

Some meds have that side affect ,Don't stop taking your meds with with out checking with your doctor frist. It is a big issue then all means talk to your doctor about it. Best of luck.

i understand. it's as if there's nothing below my waist now. and i can't quit my meds...

[Rhapsody]

Hmm -

How about thinking (going at) the sexual time together as a means of emotional bonding and not so much as a means of physical pleasure.... embrace the original purpose God created SEX for, beside procreation.

Love Making is BEAUTIFUL way to show another that you LOVE them....

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. my E. O. B doesn't talk much.