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#1
Sep 09, 2010, 07:43 AM
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1. BIIIIIG rupture with T yesterday. Feels like a huge setback into anger and hostility; she says no, these are emotions that have long been repressed & are coming up now, and that's a very good thing.
 I hate that they are leveled at her, through transference.  She said she is NOT giving up on me, that is so important for me to hear.2. Have been struggling with guilt over the fact that she had postponed her vacation indefinitely till I got through some critical work; now she has been offered a free triip abroad so I no longer have to worry about interfering with her private life  In fact we essentially get a 3 week break and I think it couldn't have come at a better time. Changing to weekly sessions intensified the pressure more than I could have imagined (I am in awe of all of you PC folk who go weekly, or even more often!!   ) I think when she gets back I may propose we go to a 2 wk interval. In the meantime I get 3 wks off too, and from this end of it, I am OK with that. It will take a while to get myself put back together after yesterday's meltdown.
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Sep 09, 2010, 09:50 PM
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((((((SAWE))))))
I'm kind of short on words right now, I apologize. I am SO glad your T told you she's not giving up on you. Hearing those words from my own T has been so healing for me, I hope it felt that good to you, too. mostly, here are just a bunch of hugs for you: 
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Sep 09, 2010, 10:04 PM
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(((((((((((((sawe))))))))))))))
Rupture and repair are part of the healing. It's awful when it's happening, but there is peace eventually. You know I'm an expert on ruptures  Sometimes we need a break. I hope that you are able to rest and regroup and that you'll come to PC to let us support you while she's gone.
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Sep 10, 2010, 11:20 AM
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this break will be good for T, also. She did leave a message last night, saying that she IS going to be there for me, she definitely IS NOT giving up on me. That will be the air I breathe till she gets back. |
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Sep 10, 2010, 11:32 AM
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SAWE, that's great that your T left you that message....That reassurance is sometimes just what we need to hear... (( HUGS ))
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Don't follow the path that lies before you. Instead, veer from the path - and leave a trail... 
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Sep 12, 2010, 06:02 PM
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SAWE: I hope the break is good for you.
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Sep 12, 2010, 07:56 PM
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SAWE keep posting as you feel the need to!
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"Be careful how you speak to your children. One day it will become their inner voice." - Peggy O'Mara Don't ever mistake MY SILENCE for ignorance, MY CALMNESS for acceptance, MY KINDNESS for weakness. - unknown |
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Sep 14, 2010, 06:52 AM
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geez, ive copied your lovely quotes, thanks for that.
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