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#1
Oct 25, 2010, 11:15 AM
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To all the Great People Here,
I apologize from my heart if my recent posts have triggered any of you or brought you pain. The Bible says "there is a time to speak and a time to keep quiet." I try to live by this principle. But i realize i might have made a mistake when it comes to certain things i've posted about recently. If i have caused you any emotional pain, please know that i'm really sorry. I want to be of encouragement here, and not add to the burdens that many of you carry. |
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#2
Oct 25, 2010, 11:19 AM
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BEHAVIORS ARE EASY WORDS ARE NOT  Dx, HUMAN Rx, no medication for that |
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Oct 25, 2010, 12:00 PM
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I'm with Granite1. My T is always telling me to stop taking on the responsibility for other peoples feelings. It's hard when you are conditioned to do that. And, only THEY can add to their burdens. You can't pile rocks in their napsacks.
warm hugs
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#4
Oct 25, 2010, 12:11 PM
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i agree....peaches, this site is for all of us...others don't have to read or respond to your posts - but if you need or want to post - PLEASE POST! Your burdens are important too - please don't lose site of that! gentle hugs ((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) i am sorry you have been in so much pain.
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Oct 25, 2010, 02:11 PM
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I don't know what you are referring to, peaches, because you certainly did not post anything that upset me!
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Now if thou would'st When all have given him o'er From death to life Thou might'st him yet recover -- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631 |
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Oct 25, 2010, 02:31 PM
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No worries ((Peaches)). Everyone has a different style of communication. When ever someone is offended about something you said (baring any obvious verbal abuse) it's always about them and never about you. I know my style may not be keen by others but you can't please 100% of the people 100% of the time :-)
PS - I've never found any of your postings offensive BTW  Wishing you peace.
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#7
Oct 25, 2010, 02:43 PM
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What brought this on Peaches?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Oct 25, 2010, 04:36 PM
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You don't burden me. I read lots of threads but don't always reply because, quite honestly, i don't have useful advice and don't do hugs that well. But i'm one of those hundred odd ppl that read
I know this isn't quite related to this thread but whenever I see your name I always think of old school mario kart, princess peaches  She was really speedy but she could be bumped easily....okay now I've said too much and reveal my skant knowledge of nintendo 2s! 
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#9
Oct 25, 2010, 06:17 PM
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(((((Peaches))))) You always post with triggers when you are not sure. So anything you shared that made me consider things were things I considered of my own free will. :-)
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Oct 26, 2010, 06:30 AM
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didn't bother me none...no worries!
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Oct 26, 2010, 06:48 AM
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I was appreciative of your post. It didn't cause me any pain.
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Oct 26, 2010, 08:02 AM
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No matter what we post, there is always the chance that someone out there will get triggered. Your posts never set out to deliberately trigger anyone, so no apology is in order at all. Part of the reader's responsibility in coming to an on-line forum is to take care of ourselves and recognize what triggers us.
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#13
Oct 26, 2010, 10:17 AM
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Thank you so much everyone for reassuring me. I just really appreciate this community and don't want to do anything to damage the safety we feel here.
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Oct 26, 2010, 10:25 AM
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(((peaches100)))
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Oct 26, 2010, 02:51 PM
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((((((((((((Peaches))))))))))))))
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Oct 26, 2010, 03:31 PM
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peaches Oh my gosh, I so understand your concern. Not that you should be like me-- but-- that's the biggest reason I rarely ever create a thread-- so I don't have to worry about hurting anyone.  I don't ever wish to hurt anyone. I know and can feel that you don't either. You have a kind soul-- I can tell. good day to you fins
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