What about the worst..

What is the worst thing a T has ever said to you? I had a T once that said "Just get over it"

Not a T, but I had a pdoc, in my first session, say "does it make it better [the abuse] knowing that your mom was mentally ill?" I felt like he wouldn't have asked "would it have made it better if you knew your parent was drunk when they did it?" Suffice to say I did not go back.

That she would give me a hug and then she decided to take it back... all my own doing not T's fault.

My former T said "you're playing games with me" and "you're manipulating me" when I wasn't.

I had a T say to me, "Jexa, you're always judging, judging, judging." But in general she sucked as a T. Just because I always called myself judgmental did not mean I actually was judgmental. But she believed all the bad things I said about myself. She just didn't get it. This was several T's ago, though, thank God.

i had a therapist tell me the abuse i suffered was my fault - needless to say, i did not go back.

wtf!!

my T told me i was a marytre once

t has said: "this is more serious than i thought" right after i started seeing him without my kids,

"I hope she has a great life" when talking about his ex-office manager who had just dumped on me

"I wish i only worked two days a week" when i told t pcp only worked two days a week, felt like i wasn't supposed to be there anymore taking up his time,

i had a T tell me, about my rape, "you don't let a guy into your house and give him a tour of the house without expecting it"

i did not step foot in her office EVER again!

had another T tell me that i would have avoided my abuse if i had just obeyed my parents! WTF

Oh no-ready for the list:

-I don't know what more I can say. (re: confidentiality conflict)
-I don't understand what you want from me. (The beginning of an email response to me)

And the kicker:

-I don't know what the crime would be. (in breaking my confidentiality)

He doesn't know much apparently.

This was the first (and last) interview with a pastoral counselor; he got very upset and accused me of "not looking at him" -- which was true, but it made me feel even worse than I already did. Although I did not go back, I did feel that he had made a valid judgement, he was right and I was wrong, and that I was a bad person for not being able to look people in the eye -- I already knew I was a bad person.

I don't know if this was the worst, though. I can think of quite a few others...

Oh.. My .. GOD!
I want to beat the hell out of that T. Way out of line! They shouldn't be in the T profession

You've had a streak of bad luck with those 2 T's you had.
I would have told that T to go **** himself in so many words. He probably beats his own kids, the dumba$$

thank you for the validation. both those T's were female, oddly.

i also had a doctor (not a T) at an ER tell me that my shaking was "bologna" when I was having a severe panic attack and didn't know what it was. in his exact words, "that shaking that you are doing, that's what we call bologna!" and he also threatened me with a large needle if i didn't stop shaking, telling me that the shaking is a symptom of a rare disease (can't remember what it was called) in which the medication for it was a huuuuge needle to the buttocks. Apparently he thought I was faking it all, because they couldn't find anything medically wrong with me.