Originally Posted by poetgirl76

Anyway, I do have a life and PC is an important part of it right now, because it's helping me with therapy and therapy is an integral part of my life right now, too.....PC is like another form of relationship that is healing in its special way!

PC is like getting free therapy! It has been very helpful to me having this as another form of my process to healing. I do think that I spend a bit too much time on here. I am not taking away from my family, since my daughter is 17 and she has her own life (as she says). My husband stays in his office most of the time, so I have a lot of spare time to find something to do!

My eyes get tired and my head hurts if I spend too much time on the computer. It is still worth the trade off for all of the help and information I find on PC.

[Melbadaze]

Squiggly, No tiff going on, and if there was I'm not sure why you feel the need to keep taking responsibity for it? When a thread is started it doesn't mean the starter takes complete ownership, they tend to branch of....I'd be pretty proud if a thread I start begun WW3 LOL!!!

Originally Posted by Melbadaze

Squiggly, No tiff going on, and if there was I'm not sure why you feel the need to keep taking responsibity for it? When a thread is started it doesn't mean the starter takes complete ownership, they tend to branch of....I'd be pretty proud if a thread I start begun WW3 LOL!!!

I am a peacemaker. I stay away from conflict as much as I can. Could this be because of something in my past? I am not sure, but when there is conflict around me, it affects me not only emotionally, but physically as well. I definitely am not one that would be proud to start a war.

This is something that I am working on in therapy. Learning how to stop taking ownership for other's actions that really have nothing to do with me.

[Melbadaze]

Good, Glad your working on it, it also helps you lighten up as well, half the time I'm sitting here giggling and someone comes along and takes things so serious!...lifes to short!

[SpiritRunner]

Originally Posted by Squiggle328

I am a peacemaker. I stay away from conflict as much as I can. Could this be because of something in my past? I am not sure, but when there is conflict around me, it affects me not only emotionally, but physically as well. I definitely am not one that would be proud to start a war.

This is something that I am working on in therapy. Learning how to stop taking ownership for other's actions that really have nothing to do with me.

I relate to all of this....