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#1
Apr 03, 2011, 02:03 PM
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I just read several posts putting down T's and I didn't reply because that's not my mindset right now. I'm so grateful to have an awesome T and my heart goes out to those who are struggling with it (and a safe ((hug)) as well). I know that in the future we may have a rupture and that I've already been through some fear and worry about sessions, but overall it's the best thing I've ever done for myself!
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#2
Apr 03, 2011, 02:06 PM
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  Even though my T caused me a huge hurt and we had a rupture, you know what.....I do still love her, think she is awesome for how she's handled things recently, and am committed to therapy, because it is a good thing to be doing for myself, too! |
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#3
Apr 03, 2011, 02:09 PM
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I'm having a bad moment with my T... so one of the posts you are talking about is probably mine
 .Nonetheless, I'm really happy for you  ! Having an excellent relationship with your therapist can surely give only benefits.
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Apr 03, 2011, 02:21 PM
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I'm grateful for my T and my therapy, too. Yeah, we have our "moments", but overall, I am thankful I have such a safe place to vent and get such wonderful help.
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open."  Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped.
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Apr 03, 2011, 02:32 PM
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Apr 03, 2011, 02:34 PM
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Apr 03, 2011, 02:55 PM
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Ellie-Beth - me too!
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#8
Apr 03, 2011, 03:29 PM
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Lol. I will say that I love my T and I am so so on the actual therapy part of it.
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Apr 03, 2011, 03:29 PM
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I love my T and I love going to therapy too, i am blessed to have a very intimate relationship with my T and can tell her anything.
Beth
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Apr 03, 2011, 10:39 PM
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 Expressing my anger to her made me sound horrible I am sure. Even though I do not like being in therapy (because it is hard!) I do like it. That's weird isn't it? Kind of a love/hate thing.
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Apr 03, 2011, 10:58 PM
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(I like my T and therapy too.  )
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Apr 03, 2011, 11:17 PM
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I love my T. She has helped me for the first time to feel positive feelings, like love, hope, and joy.
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Apr 03, 2011, 11:54 PM
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Thanks for a positive post. I'm actually a bit envious of those who can get close enough to have anger, and rupture issues as well as those like you who are happy and close to their T's. I'm so scared of humans I don't know that I will ever be able to be open enough to allow even someone as safe and cool as my T to get in. I can say anything I want-no problem there, I'm not afraid of any T leaving, even my curent one. I've tryed more than a few times to get some of them angery enough to leave but they never do. Changing insurence, or moving states has been the only reson a T has had to stop seeing me. Yet I'm still scared to trust. My T tell me she really looks forward to seeing me because I'm refressingly honest--I told her I had no reason to lie, it would only hurt me if I did. Despite that I know shes fusturated I don't really trust, or let her in. If she pushes me I become like water. It migh sound cool but I'm so much better with animals than humans. I really admire your relationship and your openess with your T. Thank you so much for sharing it.
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Nammu …Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …... Desiderata Max Ehrmann |
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Apr 04, 2011, 02:11 AM
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Sorry to babble, but when I see a thread where someone posts awesome things about their therapist and their therapy, I want to share, too. I've truly been blessed with my Tinkerbell therapist and wouldn't trade her for anything in the world. |
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Apr 04, 2011, 02:12 AM
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Peridot! I am so happy you have such a wonderful Pixie fairy for a T. Lol.
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Apr 04, 2011, 04:18 AM
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I really like my t - therapy itself I don't like so much.
Squiggle - I really relate to the love/hate thing! I read your thread about your last session and you didn't sound horrible at all. Plus most t's seem to like it when we get angry with them - t's are weird like that! |
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Apr 04, 2011, 05:56 AM
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I'm in on the love/hate kinda thing. I know my T is the best one for me and I know therapy is really helping...but sometimes I really hate it!
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 Children's talent to endure stems from their ignorance of alternatives. ~ Maya Angelou Thank you SadNEmpty for my avatar and signature.
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Apr 04, 2011, 08:32 AM
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Apr 04, 2011, 09:42 AM
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i am probibly one that seems to be putting down therapy.it comes out of total fear.although i have to say that i am starting to think that she isnt all that bad.i'm thinking maybe i should give her a chance.she isnt perfect but neither am i and she seems to not care about this so much
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Apr 04, 2011, 10:19 AM
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I am happy you found a good fit.
I am not there yet, but maybe someday soon. Maggy Jo |
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Apr 04, 2011, 11:15 AM
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Yay, positive thread that's great. We need more of these. Glad you like your t ((((Elli Beth)))
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Apr 04, 2011, 11:36 AM
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Yeah I had my share with bad T (by bad I mean not good for me, I believe they were suitable for others).
I felt like therapy is just not for me. Today I have to thank my mother that she kept on pushing me to find one I like. So mum THANK YOU. And thank you Elli-Beth for writing it down. 
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#23
Apr 04, 2011, 02:39 PM
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Right there with ya Elli-Beth. I like my T and while I don't always like therapy, I don't really dislike it either. Some sessions are better than others, but as long as my T is there to help me through it, I'm good.
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