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Apr 06, 2011, 03:40 PM
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Ok, so my issues are still very much in the present and I'm going to be dealing with them for a while, but...
A support person was reviewing the events in my childhood that led up to the current situation, so I could outline them for my T next week, and it finally dawned on me that I was just a little kid then. The thing I felt most guilty about started in elementary school! There's NO WAY that crud could have been MY fault, no matter how matter how many arguments I can come up with to the contrary! I was NOT the adult making the decisions back then! OMG!!! I am SO looking forward to the appt with my T on Friday! I want to surprise him by just going in and sitting down with a big ol' grin on my face! Last edited by Elli-Beth; Apr 06, 2011 at 04:11 PM. |
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Apr 06, 2011, 03:45 PM
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 Aw I am so pleased for you that you were able to come to this realisation and accept that it wasn't your fault, I know thats not easy to do!
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Apr 06, 2011, 04:05 PM
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it sounds like a great feeling.i hope you can grab on to this feeling and keep it close for a while.you T will be awsomely proud of you
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Apr 06, 2011, 04:13 PM
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wonderful breakthrough! of COURSE it wasn't your fault, you were a little kid, and not to blame for what others older and more responsible (adults I'm guessing) than you did.
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Apr 06, 2011, 04:26 PM
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I am so happy to be hearing this.
I deal with the same issue and hearing that you can actually believe it to be true gives me a great hope. Thank you so much for posting this. Now I will go to sleep to keep this hope longer with me. Again thank you, cant even explain how I have needed this right now.
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Apr 06, 2011, 04:43 PM
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Amazing- such a different emotional place than I was in Monday, even though I'm still facing the same situation! ("Most painful day ever")
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Apr 06, 2011, 07:05 PM
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You are doing great! You are right! No child is at fault for what is done against them. Period. What you see now is TRUTH. Amazing to taste :-)
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