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Old May 13, 2011, 12:11 PM
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Not looking forward to mondays appointment , im always waiting to be dumped
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Old May 13, 2011, 08:01 PM
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PTSDlovemycats - My T would never allow that much contact..ive never come across anyone here that does but your very lucky to have someone so understanding and who doesn't make you feel bad for needing support
Thanks Dizgirl, I am extremely grateful that I have the T that I have an am very appreciative for it as well. She always trys to help me see the best in things. I hope that things improve for you.
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Thanks for this!
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Old May 13, 2011, 11:15 PM
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(((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))) Here's to hoping things go well on Monday!
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Old May 14, 2011, 03:44 AM
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It must be horrible to be "waiting to be dumped" that doesn't sound very therapeutic at all. Her shifting boundaries and going back and forth on termination definitely doesn't sound helpful. Are you sure she's not doing more harm than good? Therapy should provide safety and stability, it doesn't sound like you're getting either of those. IMO
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Old May 14, 2011, 06:35 AM
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It must be horrible to be "waiting to be dumped" that doesn't sound very therapeutic at all. Her shifting boundaries and going back and forth on termination definitely doesn't sound helpful. Are you sure she's not doing more harm than good? Therapy should provide safety and stability, it doesn't sound like you're getting either of those. IMO
Hey, you're right it should feel much safer than it does although I dont think I would ever feel safe in a theraputic relationship because I am always waiting on it to end anyway!
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Old May 14, 2011, 07:26 AM
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just some big safe hugs this morning! A t relationship shouldn't be this conflicting or leave you feeling so hurt and conflicted......I know sometimes there is hurt (I have been hurt with my T) when there are ruptures and ruptures happen, but shifting boundaries on a consistent basis is a hurt that shouldn't be, I think!
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