[ladyjrnlist]

I hate my T right now. Things have transpired in the past three weeks that I cannot even go into. I've been seeing him for almost a year and a half. Now I want to crack his skull. Worry not, I won't commit any violent acts. I just want to is all.
I wish I could even say what's been going on, but it is so absurd and hurtful for me that I can't. Let's just say a line has been crossed and I didn't cross it.
I used to trust him and we did great therapy work. Now, not so much. I don't want to start over building trust with a new T, so I think it's time to quit.
I can take care of myself. Did before. Can again.
Thanks for listening.

[Marie123]

You can feel free to discuss it here.....It might help?

Hugs

[wing]

I support your decision, lady. You can always start again if you want to.

[childofyen]

I'll totally be on your side if you wanna let it all out!

[lastyearisblank]

Sometimes we hate people because they deserve it.

[PTSDlovemycats]

I feel the same way about my T right now.

[WePow]

Maybe it will help you to just let us know what is going on? Sometimes it helps if others can see what you are up against. PC peeps tend to be on your side :-)

[googley]

(((((((((((Lady)))))))))))

I've been thinking about you. I hope that you are able to stand up for yourself and stop seeing this T. You need to protect yourself. Please reach out for support. We are here for you. I still second suggesting you find someone else to work though this with. It is good to have support when going through this from someone you can talk openly about what is happening.

[ladyjrnlist]

T told me he is in love with me. He has said it more than once. We are both married, nevermind the whole therapist/client dilemma. T insists he can still treat me and we can be OK as long as we don't act on our feelings. I told hiim while back that I had transference and felt love for him. That, to me, is different than him telling me he loves ME. I do love him, but I know darn well it is not healthy. It was OK with me when I thought it was just normal transference. Now that he says he loves me, it's caused my depression to crash like the Hindenberg. AND, he's stopped returning my texts asking for help. Nice, eh?

[rainbow8]

oh, ladyj. Your T has crossed a boundary. I don't see how you can stay with him. I know how painful that realization is. It's HIS fault, not yours. There ARE many, many decent Ts out there who will not violate your trust in this way. I really think you need to find someone else. This has happened before, you said? I am very sorry if that's the case with another T as well. It's just bad luck. It's not YOU.

[childofyen]

That sounds devastating, ladyj. Something like that would put me in a tailspin, so I'm not surprised that you're feeling so strongly about it. I don't know what else to say except that I'm listening and sending you love. -CoY

[WePow]

man... I am very sorry he did that to you. They know that even if that is there for them, the just CANT say that!!!

[mixedup_emotions]

(((((( SAFE HUGS ))))))

I am so so so sorry that you are caught in this extremely painful place.

[pachyderm]

Don't you deserve better?

[Xeneon]

Sending you tons of hugs

I'm so sorry you T descided to step over the line and I'm sorry he though it was okay to tell you this because hes your T and T's are suppost to be supportive. I'm truely sorry for what has been done. I hope you find courage to tell him, what you feel and that you won't see him again. Sorry again...Take Care!!