 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#1
Sep 14, 2011, 01:05 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I went and saw my T yesterday and after all the angst and heartache of the last few weeks, we ended up having an amazing session. Of course it started out with him saying, "...seems like you keep trying to get rid of me from your email." Well, ooops.
But in that same email I asked him some of the questions that we talk about sometimes here on PC like do we give them nightmares, or are our relationships real or not, and I shared with him some hurts. He seemed to sense somehow that I needed some healing. We ended up getting on the floor, and we just talked. Man, it was such a relief. I didn't dissociate even once, and we even talked about how vulnerable I get when I do go away, and how badly I don't want to. We even talked about God for a while and some other stuff. I only cried once. I know that it can't be like that all the time, and that today was a cherished gift...but sometimes I think also that the harder we try, and the more honest we get, the more our T's will be willing to work with us and reach out a little further when we really need them.. I really needed the gift of healing today. And he reached out and gave that to me in a big way. I even asked for and received a safe huggle back... oh yeah..and he gave me homework... well, back to the real world..lol Wysteria Blue 
__________________
 Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your heart. Who looks outside, Dreams... Who looks inside, Awakens... - Carl Jung |
 FourRedheads, jazzy123456, Omers, rainbow8, rainbow_rose, sittingatwatersedge, SoupDragon, sunrise, WePow
|
|
#2
Sep 14, 2011, 01:40 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Wow! Wisteria that's so awsome. That HAD to feel good. I'm happy for you.
|
| Wysteria
|
|
#3
Sep 14, 2011, 03:11 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Awesome session! Good for you! ....Just out of curiosity are you doing the homework or do you need tigergirl's dog as well??
|
| Omers, Wysteria
|
|
#4
Sep 14, 2011, 05:30 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Great job being able to open up and trust again and to connect!
__________________
~~~~~~~~~~~~ |
| Wysteria
|
|
#5
Sep 14, 2011, 06:08 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
glad i know where he went
 ((((wysteria)))) that's a precious gift indeed the good session you had with T especially after your concerns, i'm glad it went so well and you got a safe hug
__________________
  |
| Wysteria
|
|
#6
Sep 14, 2011, 06:45 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Thats wonderful! So glad you had a good session.
|
| Wysteria
|
|
#7
Sep 14, 2011, 07:29 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Wow--I am so happy for you. Thank you for sharing this. It gives me hope to continue to press on.
|
| Wysteria
|
|
#8
Sep 14, 2011, 07:26 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
__________________
"Therapists are experts at developing therapeutic relationships." |
| Wysteria
|
|
#9
Sep 14, 2011, 07:33 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
when ever i have one of those sessions it just confirms for me that the world should go on and i get to be a part of it
so glad you were able to have that with t.... it will happen again.... |
| Wysteria
|
|
#10
Sep 14, 2011, 09:28 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
thank you.
__________________
Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your heart. Who looks outside, Dreams... Who looks inside, Awakens... - Carl Jung |
| Wysteria
|
|
#11
Sep 14, 2011, 09:45 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
so when those moments do come...where you are confused and have done some hard work in therapy... remember this moment... remember it with all your might
and know you are Moving Forward!
__________________
--- A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.Maya Angelou. so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456 ---------------------------- "You're not here merely to make a living. You are here to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, and with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. You impoverish yourself if you forget this errand." (Woodrow Wilson) 
|
| Wysteria
|
|
#12
Sep 14, 2011, 09:56 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I'm glad you had such a nice session; if we could bottle those kinds up and save them forever, huh?
|
| Wysteria
|
|
#13
Sep 14, 2011, 10:04 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
So happy for you, Wysteria! That's wonderful to hear. I keep hoping that maybe one day I'll have a session like that. Take care.
|
|
#14
Sep 14, 2011, 11:36 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I keep hoping that maybe one day I'll have a session like that. [/quote]
You know...I bet you will. I certainly wasn't expecting it, and it took a long time in the making..and a week ago I was ready to stop it all hurt so very much. I guess that's why I didn't mind sharing it with you guys, cause it was that special, and I knew ya'll would appreciate just what it meant... I want the same thing to happen to each of us at just the right time, and when we will cherish and honour it for what exactly how magnanimous it will be... I do know that I will indeed have to bottle it up deep inside and save it for all the hard times ahead...and sip from it lightly so it will last and last. Soft bunny huggles, Wysteria Blue
__________________
Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your heart. Who looks outside, Dreams... Who looks inside, Awakens... - Carl Jung |
| rainbow8
|
|
#15
Sep 15, 2011, 10:54 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Wow - that sounds like such an important session - you have inspired me WB - well done and lots of huggles
Soup
__________________
Soup |
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
