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Old Oct 11, 2011, 05:11 PM
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T n i had a GREAT session! I was opening up n he seemed interested.
I showed him a pic on my iphone of when i was in hosp from si attempt. He looked at it n was like ohhhh my god just glaring at it

Then..... He started flippin thru my other pics! Lol i was just sitting there baffled! Lol he saw a pic of me n held it up n was like is this you? This doesnt even look like you! Then hes all i wanna see a pic of ur ex (kids dad) which SO many session are over him. Ugh it was embarassing! Thank god i didnt save any of him lol!

Then we were talking about his billing. He knows i know how to bill and he kinda hinted at it so i offered. Were trying to make a deal like so much a month, or watever n i said no, ill do it free its ok n he said i. An do ig from home.

So then end of session i go to confirm bout billing n he said i probably shouldnt do it. Its against the ethics code....tho im tempted to have u do it. I said ok, no prob n left.

I felt like we had a good session really relating to me n so i added him on face ook *ugh i know!!*. Within 1 hour he denied me. Ugh now i feel so dumb!

Im seeing him 2x week so i c him on fri n im dreading it!!!!!! Gahhh wtf is wrong with me i swear i have NO self control!!!!!

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Old Oct 11, 2011, 06:01 PM
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Adding him on facebook is in no way "f-ing it all up". I've had plenty of clients try to add me to facebook, and it's not a big deal. We have a conversation about why I can't do that, why my facebook is private, etc, etc. Please do not let this drag down what a great session you had. It makes sense that you felt really good after session and wanted to add him. He remained professional and declined. All's forgiven, I am sure.
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Old Oct 11, 2011, 06:11 PM
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It's not the end of the world (although I'm sure it feels like it). Also, like stormy said, you're NOT the only client to have done this, so in his mind he's more than likely not seeing it the same way you are.

It's AWESOME that you had a great session! Sending him a friend request in no way, shape or form negates that. In fact, I think it makes perfect sense that you would want to after a great session (I know I would).
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Old Oct 11, 2011, 11:59 PM
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Omg! I checked my facebook ans he DID accept it!!! Omg omg omg. I dont even know what to do with myself.

I wonder if i should being it up fri or act like nuthin happened?!
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