no T

i have no T because no place around here has electricity no plans on getting any untill maybe thursday.i'm scared cold and have no T i know my T doesnt have any power either it sucks i'm scared i cant write much and wont be on herre because i have not much battery left on my computer and need to dave it for emergencies life sucks and i want my T

Oh, I'm sorry you are having power issues and are cold in addition to being T-less! I was powerless for 3-4 days back the last hurricane and I hated that but at least I was a bit too warm, not cold (hate being cold). Sorry you can't even get comfort from us on the computer but have to save your battery in case it is some time before power comes back.

I'd make a list of places that might get power sooner or have backup generators, etc. and see if I couldn't figure out a way to go there for some part of each day. Do you have a college or anything near you? They'll probably have some buildings working, maybe the library; a library where you could take your computer and plug it in and be near a student union for hot cocoa or something in a snack bar would be ideal.

granite:

((((((((((((Granite))))))))))))))))

I'm sorry you are without power, that really sucks. I'm sure your T is thinking about you since she is without power and it is your usual session day today.

i have 35 min left on my computer i am so angry at my t i called the office to find it is closed i guess i just wanted her to maybe call and tell me of something .i guess i really am jusst a job to her not even human i wont hear from her at all untill i probibly see her next monday.god maybe i do need to quit.she hates me so much i think i am staying with her hoping that i can change her feelings about me.i hate her and this situation.i just dont know how she can even think i can even want to talk to her when i never see her hardly.god i am just so angry i did get a generaton i can use for 2 hrs tonight to atleast take the chill out of the house and to get the frige cold again untill tomorrow.i have the use of it for 2 hrs every night untill we get electrisity and heat again.hopefuly thursday

red cross has shelters set up the govoner has declared a state of emergency so we will be getting some help soon to get things back and up and running sooner i hope.i got a generstor i can use for 2 hrs a night better than nothing.i know i will be buying one as soon as they are available again.some electrisity has been fixed in other town next to us so maybe there is hope for us to get it tomorrow

Hopefully the electricity will be turned back on soon. (I understand that millions of people lost electricity because of the recent snow/ice storm on the USA's east coast.)

It's not surprising that your T has cancelled appointments because of the power outage; please don't take it personally. When your T's office re-opens, please discuss the emotions mentioned in your post with her and clear the air. It sounds like you need your T a lot and rely on her for a lot of emotional support. I am sure that she is trying to help you; her office is closed because there is no electricity - not because of something you have done or said!

Until all is back to normal, I hope the support from your friends here at PC helps!

(((((Granite)))))

When our roads were closed last winter, my T's office was closed. He didn't call me directly (and I know he has my phone number saved on his cell phone)...there was a message on his voice mail when I called that said the office was closed and to call to reschedule.

It didn't mean that he hated me, or didn't want to see me, or that I did anything wrong. It just meant that the office was closed because of bad weather.

Try not to make it into something it's not.

I'm sorry granite. You sound so disappointed and frustrated.

granite I hope you have warmth and light soon!

Sending a warming hug from us all

Your T didn't cause the power outage and probably is just as frustrated about not being able to work. Not being able to call during a power outage is a pretty common problem so you really shouldn't take it as a personal affront. Why all the "I hate her" and "she hates me" language? Think this through. You are taking a completely impersonal and stressful situation and turning it into something personal. Slow down. Light some candles. Roast some marshmallows. This power outage isn't about you. It didn't happen to make your life personally miserable. It just is what it is.

Seconding that warming hug
Last winter I lived in an apartment that had no heating, the building was like 300 years old and too big to ever be warm. I had four blankets and wore thick socks and a poncho almost every day. In between feeling cold and sleepy I found myself really pissed at T for having a warm, comfortable office that I couldn't just live in. I totally understand. Hope you get electricity and to see T soon.

Granite, hugs for you

i think i am just scared that i have no power or anything my foo is already going bad no grocery stores are open and getting gas is almost impossable it is dark and cold and i am just scared and i just hate that she had to cancel.i'm scared/i do get the use of a generator for 2 hours a day so i charged me computer back to 50% and got 2 hrs of heat right now it i warm but know it is going to be cold in an hour again.i hate this

i guess i lknow this it would have just been nice to hear from her.i swear i dont ever want to be closer to her if it sucks this much.i just get so tired of not seeing her it just seems like every 2 or 3 mondays she is off.frustrated and scared

thanks i am at just about everything

i know this i am just scared and wanting to see her to have everything be ok and it isn't on every level but i guess i know she didnt cause this but i wished she called .i guess it is stupid for wanting this but i did.

thanks for understanding

ill take all warm hugs.i'm gonna be cold again tonight

I also want T when things happen like storms or emergencies. That's normal. I would be angry, frustrated and disappointed too, even though it wasn't T's fault.

I hope you can stay warm (is your husband there to help?) and comfortable until you get your power back. Sending WARM hugs to you.

sending more warm safe hugs your way, granite.

I'm sorry, Granite. I can hear the frustration and hurt in your post. More hugs.

another day without anything and now my hubby needed to go to work.i hate this i know i am being a needy whiney spoiled brat and all but i am still cold and lonely and now they are saying not untill saturday.my T couldnt call me even if she wanted to i have no phone and she doesnt have my cell phone.i am looking into getting a converter for my pellet stove so i can maybe run it off my car battery.i know i am just complaining all the time but this sucks big time all my food id going baad also.we put snow in a cooler to help keep some of it good but i dont know if it will be enought for untill sayurday we are trying to eat what will go bad first.i only have about 20 min left for my computer untill i can use the generator for a few hours tonight.sorry i am not responding to everyones posts i just dont have the time but know i love you all and am thinking of you wishing i wasnt feeling so alone .i know drama drama drama.i guess i'm the queen todeay

No, you're not being a drama queen. The reality is that you're in a tough situation there and I don't blame you one bit for being angry and frustrated!!! It's awful to have no power for so many days!! Are there shelters to go to in your neighborhood? The malls? Somewhere out of your house where they do have power?