Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Dec 20, 2011, 06:39 AM
mommyof2girls's Avatar
mommyof2girls mommyof2girls is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Apr 2011
Posts: 1,327
Well my last session with my new t went really well.....I can't believe the progress we are making in such a short period of time.....While working on my one major issue ( transference with my previous t ) I told her that I had a Christmas card that I was going to mail to my ex t, and she advised that we just tear the card up and not send it!!!! I was shocked at first, I mean I really wanted to send the card, but I did go out to my car and we actually tore it up together.... It was actually a really good feeling....Like a weight had been lifted off my sholders.....I couldn't believe that I felt that way....In sessions, we had been discussing my issues with ex t and that I had been giving him all of this power over me....Wow how right she was!!!!!! I can't believe that I have been spending all of my time and energy on this one person....The power he has had over me, all that I had given him.....and it was finally time that I take it back!!!!!!!! I am so excited that I am finally making such great strides.....I know that I am not over him 100 %, but I now can start to see the light at the end of the tunnel..... Yahoo for me !!!!!!
Hugs from:
Anonymous37917, WePow
Thanks for this!
notz, pachyderm, rainbow_rose, skysblue

advertisement
  #2  
Old Dec 20, 2011, 07:04 AM
Chopin99's Avatar
Chopin99 Chopin99 is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Dec 2009
Location: Southeastern US
Posts: 5,221
Yahoo indeed!
__________________
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined. - Henry David Thoreau
  #3  
Old Dec 20, 2011, 01:09 PM
roads's Avatar
roads roads is offline
member
 
Member Since: Aug 2011
Location: away
Posts: 23,905
!

No slipping back!
__________________
roads & Charlie
- - and
  #4  
Old Dec 20, 2011, 01:29 PM
Nelliecat's Avatar
Nelliecat Nelliecat is offline
Grand Member
 
Member Since: May 2011
Location: UK
Posts: 960
Good for you!
  #5  
Old Dec 20, 2011, 06:05 PM
pbutton's Avatar
pbutton pbutton is offline
Oh noes!
 
Member Since: Jul 2011
Location: in a house
Posts: 4,485
Great work!
  #6  
Old Dec 20, 2011, 06:31 PM
CantExplain's Avatar
CantExplain CantExplain is offline
Big Poppa
 
Member Since: Oct 2011
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 19,616
It's wonderful when things start to come together.
__________________
Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc.

Add that to your tattoo, Baby!
  #7  
Old Dec 20, 2011, 07:40 PM
WePow's Avatar
WePow WePow is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2006
Location: Everywhere and Nowhere
Posts: 6,588
What a very awesome gift you have given to yourself!
__________________
~~~~~~~~~~~~
  #8  
Old Dec 20, 2011, 08:09 PM
rainbow_rose's Avatar
rainbow_rose rainbow_rose is offline
looking for rainbows
 
Member Since: May 2011
Posts: 2,653
__________________
Happiness cannot be found
through great effort and willpower,
but is already present,
in open relaxation and letting go.

Don't strain yourself,
there is nothing to do or undo.
Whatever momentarily arises
in the body-mind
Has no real importance at all,
has little reality whatsoever.

Don't believe in the reality
of good and bad experiences;
they are today's ephemeral weather,
like rainbows in the sky.


~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~

Reply
Views: 366

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 01:18 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.