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New thread. A carryover from "Over 'til It's Over."
The "psychopathology" is just the necessary tie-in with psychotherapy. Dive right in. ![]()
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O.k. - so we don't need to tie in psychopathology to enlightenment, right? Cuz I wouldn't know where to start. Oh - actually I don't know where to start anyways. I think Mcl should lead us since she began by giving you the 'enlightened' label.
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Enlightenment is a mirage...but when you're really thirsty....
I can lead everyone here TOWARDS enlightenment, but I will not know when we arrive. Wait a moment.....perhaps we are already there? I think that's the point, right? |
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I don't think enlightenment is a form of psychopathology; however, I do feel that since enlightenment is usually not reached or understood by people falling within the statistical mean of society, those people would call it "abnormal." I don't believe in "normal/abnormal"; there is only a statistical mean that falls in the middle of a continuum.
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And so your comment about Ygrec and enlightenment - enlighten us. ![]() |
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I just finished attending a multi-week seminar addressing the possible co-junction (?) between psychosis and spirituality. Who can judge if we're psychotic or enlightened? So, Ygrec, maybe Mcl was actually pointing out your psychosis.
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Assuming enlightenment is what you have observed in yourself since about the age of 60 (big assumption), I have a theory about that.
I am only 61 so probably not as enlightened ![]() Yes, we have interests in retirement, engagements, learn new things, enjoy our lives but the focus of "what next" is pretty much gone? We literally can't look forward so we only have our actual experience from behind us and what we feel it "means" to go on. Now we can look back and tell the 40 year olds there won't always be the feeling of doing a zillion things at once and feeling one is spinning one's wheels and the 50 years that the tiredness is probably never going to go away again. We can calmly pick out the things we did that we now see helped us deal with the kids, the schools, the obnoxious boss, how to take a minute for one's self and relate those personal tips to those younger than we are. Because it comes from us, first hand, instead of from a book or an "expert" (love those male gynecologists telling women what it is like having a baby :-) it has a different ring to it, an attractive first-person, "knowing" ring that gets thought of as "wisdom" or "enlightenment" :-) All my "big" life experiences are done and available for my perusal and arranging to suit me, retelling, savoring. Sure, my husband or I may get critically ill and/or die and that will be a new experience but I have been critically ill and dealt with my parents in this stage in their life so have a little experience with others being critically ill and dying. I do not have ultimate experience of this stage in my life yet though, as I'm "in" it. But I don't have anyone "ahead" of me who I want to tell about this stage, wow them with my expertise because everybody ahead of me is in the exact same stage of life. It's like when your parent told you as a teen you'd understand when you were grown and had kids of your own; you sneered until you were grown and had kids of your own ![]()
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I was stunned but it has turned out to be true ![]() |
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So - stuck??
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Ah, the enlightening comments from our bosses and teachers. I still remember the 7th grade math teacher's comment on my report card: "Good ability, poor performance".
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People.
Why don't we start by trying to agree on a definition of enlightenment, whatever it may be. Even if none of us is there yet, as none of us appear to be. Take care. ![]()
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Enlightenment: a six-pack of Heineken?
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Enlightenment: the loss of your virginity?
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Enlightenment: the first time you heard Schubert's Quintet in C Major?
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I am not "grown" enough to enter your discussion on the definition of enlightenment. I am just reeling from Perna's enlightening statement that for me, at 50, the tiredness is never going away again!
![]() As usual, thank you to this group of posters who always enlighten me! Is there a definition in there somewhere? Bluemountains Last edited by bluemountains; Dec 29, 2011 at 10:04 PM. Reason: grammar |
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I'll think about this some more... ![]() Bluemountains |
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I don't think that anyone reaches "enlightenment"!
It is a journey not a destination. Just my take on things |
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pleasure=enlightenment????
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So you work for yourself now?
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Enlightenment is the term used to translate terms like Satori and Moksha, but it isn't the right word really. It just stuck. It isn't like being a Saint; it is much more specific and it doesn't require a lifetime of being on one's best behavior. It has to be described in negative terms, and that is like describing a big empty room by listing all the things that aren't in it. It also isn't enough to consciously know things about Enlightenment. This is about that part of you in the back of your mind that knows better but gets in trouble anyway.
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I think perna's explaination is as enlightened as we can get...she talks about things we are sure about, our experiences. If we want to stop a train we have to be sure the train exists we cannot stop a train that doesnt exist. we can only be enlightened in this realm.
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