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Jan 22, 2012, 07:25 PM
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Hi guys!
I've often complained that my T doesn't get the balance right between empathy and challenges. I now realise that there is no way for T to know beforehand what is going to trigger me. So a neutral question for her can seem like a life-or-death challenge to me. Conversely, whern she makes a deliberate challenge, it could bounce right off because it feels to me like a simple question-of-fact.
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Jan 22, 2012, 08:09 PM
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This is a great insight/revelation. maybe now you can find yourself complaining less about this issue. !
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#3
Jan 22, 2012, 08:35 PM
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Sux to be HER, doesn't it?!
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Jan 22, 2012, 11:30 PM
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I am glad it sounds like you will not be in a state of dismay over the rupture while she is gone.
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Jan 22, 2012, 11:47 PM
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Quote:
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Jan 23, 2012, 01:20 PM
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Very good! Yes, our triggers are about us not about those who trigger us.
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