It's an interesting description. I think transference is very individual and unique to the person having the response. I had a very strong positive response to my therapist, but never had any sexual desire or needed/wanted him to reciprocate. I only wanted to express it. I think, for me, transference was really about self-connection and self-love. Haven't seen him in therapy for over 3 years. Still feel exactly the same. Still have a very fond and warm affection for him. I think it's possible to love a person without knowing them in a personal way. Simple human connection and shared experience can be very deep and meaningful. There is a place where we all connect. I believe that. I don't think about him much anymore, but whenever he does cross my mind...my heart feels joy and I am reminded of all there is to love about me.
Mar 06, 2012, 08:28 PM
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