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Old Apr 26, 2012, 02:10 PM
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(((Silenthill))) you have nothing to be ashamed of. I felt the same way when my best friend roomate stole my checks and thousands of dollars. I felt so stupid for trusting her and because of abuse history, as one counselor told me i just feel ashamed and guilty for breathing. This just cemented all those feelings. But feelings arent facts like Hankster said in another thread recently. It will take time for you to heal. It is GOOD she is getting help. Your ex T like my ex roomate DOES need help. Not that it excuses their behavior. What your T did was utterly dispicable and such a complete anf total betrayal by a person you should have beem able to trust and you were in such a vulnerable position. If she is practicing rigjt now, i hppe she is under VERY close supervision. I'm so glad you reported her so she wont hurt others. You are very brave, Silenthill.
Thank you likewater for sharing,can i ask you, was it hard for you trust after what you went through ? and if you can trust now ? i'm having a really hard time with trusting even ppl in my family, sorry i'm not that good at writing

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Old Apr 26, 2012, 04:13 PM
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I all ways thought when it all comes out,i would be able to heal,and move on with my life,but now that its out i feel ashamed, and embarrassed,see where i live every one knows every one in town, some T's here in my town are saying they care about her,and want to help her,all i know is i have been through two years of hell,and no one in my town has never showed any concern for me or my family nor for the other clients family, i guess one good thing that came out of all this is that ex T will get help
I never thought about her peers wanting to help. I can understand that they would empathize, but really these are huge ethical violations and character issues. I wonder how long their support will last.

I wish you and your family could receive tons of support, empathy, and compassion. You certainly deserve it! Sometimes people don't know what to say or how to help.

I hope as time goes on, that this will be healing for you. I think it's still too early yet, you are still right in the midst of it all. After it's over is when I think there might be relief and room for healing

I continue to admire you for being so strong and courageous!!
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