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I am just having trouble lately. I am not as depressed this week, luckily, but as the title indicates, I'm really uneasy and feeling restless today. I haven't been able to exercise much lately, so I know that's part of it, but some of it is therapy and the couples therapy my H and I have been doing.
Therapy last week centered on something really hard for me, as I posted about. Then in couples' therapy, my husband said some things about me that weren't true and then he and therapist kept talking so much that I could never address what he had to say. It's not the first time it's happened either. When H and I talked about it finally, he acknowledged it wasn't literally true, but said it 'felt' true, like that makes it okay somehow. Also, I talked to him about how hard I've worked in my own therapy to get better and he rolled his eyes at me. ![]() Not sure if I feel like punching someone in the face, or like going back to bed and staying there, or what. Maybe some vacillation between the two. I want desperately to talk to my therapist and called him. Then I ignored the call when he called back. THEN I called him again and left a message, but said I didn't need to talk to him today because I can handle things until I see him tomorrow. THEN I decided I was just going to quit therapy because apparently it's not making me any better and it's actually making my marriage worse and I want to stay married AND I don't want to talk to T about what we talked about last week ever again. EVER. So, apparently I want to talk to T constantly, but never see him again. ![]() ![]() |
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I suppose it would be wrong of me to suggest a solution that consisted of meeting up with your T in your bed, no?
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I have never done marriage T, but it sounds horrid to me. The last thing I want to know is what H really thinks of me, especially now when I am thinking so little of myself.
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I have felt like I wanted to attack and yet did not want to leave my bed. I hope it gets better soon.
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#5
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Well, the Naked Therapist is raking in the bucks doing therapy in the nude. Maybe some clever T will start a business of Therapy in Bed. Maybe being under the covers with T would increase the intimacy factor so clients would speak more freely? Hmmm ....
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Yah, that has an appeal for me too. No eye contact - love it! The therapy in bed thing just might work ......
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I would rather eat cool whip than think about beds and the therapist. And i despise cool whip. But if it keeps mkac from face punching, i am glad.
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i so understand calling t and then when he calls back, ignoring his call. except that usually he just calls back; again, and again, and again, etc.
talk to t, let him know. it is scary going back to t after sharing. afraid of their reaction. but usually t is just t. i am the one afraid. i'm divorced, so no help there. mkac, go be with t, he will help. he understands. and he will be there for you! |
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You probably should just talk to T. I know that when I am struggling, just hearing his voice makes it a little bit better. (crap, I hate him for that)
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