emotionally absent mother

WikidPissah · Jul 21, 2012, 05:44 AM

(((Lola))) No, so not your fault. There is nothing sexual about an 8 yr. old. When my dad was beating my mom, I knew exactly what to do to calm him down.

It isn't our fault that we knew this stuff.

Jul 21, 2012, 06:14 AM

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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna

My weekend dad took me once to get my hair cut, there was a very pretty lady in this fancy mall. I was in 7th grade and had always got home hair cuts. After the shampoo , she called a few other ladies over and they began whispering and then she told my dad i was infested with lice. No one would cut my hair, they quickly led me out they were very upset. My dad was embarrassed and angry at me, I was ashamed, he took me home to the mother she was mad at me too .... I still hate getting my hair cut for fear I'll have lice.

OMG someone else with the " I am not gonna cut you because you have lice" experience. My parent had my older brother send me to the hairdresser. They would not touch me either. But my sibling insisted if I were infested they had to shave me cause he would not touch me with lice... hmm ending up returning to third grade looking like G R Jane.

I even thought about this yesterday and it makes me sad that a bet so many of us have been somewhat traumatize do to the " horrible state" ( irony) of having lice and having adults and hairdressers who could not handle it with some commonsence AND respect. Needless to say I got teased a lot in school after that episode.

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