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Old Jul 27, 2012, 11:18 AM
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Crying over what would have been my Stepfathers 50th birthday today if he hadnt killed himself. How pathetic.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 11:20 AM
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No. Not pathetic.

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Old Jul 27, 2012, 11:27 AM
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im sorry for your loss. you are not pathetic at all lost
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 11:27 AM
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I'm sorry, lost. It's okay to cry.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 11:29 AM
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 11:48 AM
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It's not pathetic at all. I'm so sorry.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 11:52 AM
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No, not pathetic. In a word, human. It's natural to miss those who have left us, especially those who have left us by their own choices. And it's completely natural to miss them worst on the day they left us.

I hope you understand what I'm trying to say. And I hope you take some comfort in everyone's replies and hugs to your post.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 11:59 AM
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I'm sorry Lost there is nothing pathetic about about what you are feeling. I hope you feel better soon
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 12:30 PM
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Not pathetic at all. It's totally reasonable that you would cry at a time like this
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 12:33 PM
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I understand. It would have been my father's 100th birthday May 12 and I took that day "off" because of the thoughts/memories.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 12:36 PM
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It is completely understandable, and not pathetic. I'm so sorry, Lost.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 12:40 PM
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I called T but he didn't answer. I self medicated. I'm a failure.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 12:45 PM
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No you are not a failure You reached out to your T and to us. This is good... Don't be so hard on yourself. You are upset over something that is okay to be upset about.

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Old Jul 27, 2012, 12:56 PM
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you're not a failure and you're not pathetic. it's perfectly reasonable to be upset about this. any person would be. and even "normal" people would be upset and probably get drunk or something on a day like this.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 01:44 PM
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Hang on, lost. He will call you back. Huge hugs to you.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 03:01 PM
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Hang on, lost. He will call you back. Huge hugs to you.
Idk why but he didn't not to one text. Or my phone call.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 05:25 PM
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You've got lots of support here Lost. WE all care about you. Sorry for your loss sweetie.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 05:51 PM
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You've got lots of support here Lost. WE all care about you. Sorry for your loss sweetie.
Thanks at least I got support here. my T is MIA. He really left me hanging today and I don't know why.
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 06:49 PM
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he cancelled yesterday cos his wife and kid were sick, right? that could still be going on?
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Old Jul 27, 2012, 07:38 PM
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he cancelled yesterday cos his wife and kid were sick, right? that could still be going on?
Yesterday he texted though and even called. Today nothing.
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