Welcome To The Couch People of PC Psychotherapy (All Welcome Part 11)

Interesting... Very interesting....

It always sucks to have couple friends and there's one in the couple you don't like... The goodmwithmthe bad I suppose. If he's extroverted and easygoing, then he may balance you out... My partner is an introvert.

I don't dislike her, I just find her very tiring to be around, especially when I'm not doing so well in general. And yes, H and I do balance each other out to a great extent. I just wish he'd accept my introversion more. He has no problems accepting that other friends of ours don't want to meet up too often because they get tired, or don't want to come over if there are too many other people around, or whetever. He just doesn't like it when I try to tell him that I don't think I will be able to, for instance, be sociable with other people three nights in a row after work. It's just hard for him to understand, I guess.

Anyway. Tomorrow's Monday -- always my favourite day of the week. But it means I need to go to bed now. Night all. I expect to see a new shiny couch when I wake up tomorrow!

It is odd to dream that it takes most of the appointment for the therapist and or I to figure out we are not the people who we are supposed to be.
The other type of therapy dreams I have are where the therapist sets the appointment at some strange and usually dilapidated office and sends a substitute to the appointment and neither the substitute therapist nor I know why.

And these are recurring dreams for me.

I understand his dilemma.... But an introvert is drained by interaction, as to where and extrovert is energized.

[Pippin] 'It was a wrench to let it go; but what else could I do?'

'Nothing else,' answered Aragorn. 'One who cannot cast away a treasure at need is in fetters. You did rightly.'

Maybe you need to show T the real you, not the protected facade you've created. Maybe you know your fouling yourself and this relationship feels fake?

I have shown the therapist the real me. There are not that many facets to me. I think it is the therapist who is fake, not me.

Have you asked them? I think there is a facet to you, your not willing to see...maybe ask partner, she's closer to you then anyone huh?

No that really does not feel like what the dreams mean. I do tell the therapist what I think without holding back. And probably not on the partner.

Really? More honest with T's not partner... Lol. Me too.....

My T thinks dreams are about your underlying feelings, bot the details, so how do you feel about the dreams...

BTW , can we change your title to Yoda of PC?

stopdog = yoda.

Hmmmmm.

I fell asleep.

Not as detailed with the partner. I cannot hurt the therapist.
I feel somewhat uneasy after therapist dreams.

Ha Ha on the yoda of pc.

If you still had a crush on me there would be no hmmming

Ok...I do not find you totally unbecoming.

i have had only three dreams with T
one she was hurting me ALL SAID

another one i told her about wanting to die and SI and she got all frustrated and said jeasus fine ill deal with this and then sent me away to another place

and another she was protecting me from the mother when she was talking to her about me and i was a small kid

new couch soon already

what is everyone having for dinner i am having baked ziti yumm yummm

stopdog dreams....

T is always not who she is, or not where she is supposed to be. She's fake. I think your mind is just trying to grasp if she's the real deal or not. Is she pretending, or does she really care.

wise wiki says: lift up her skirt and make sure she has no balls.

You can't have all the chicks, .... We can split em, Deal?

i am always drained by interaction.OMG my inlaws visit jst about killed me. i was so overdosed by people

The later one speaks volumes and dinner was going to be grilled steak and squash, but partner is Ill so crab cakes for me and chipped beef for her.

I said balls...that's one million Chopin points right there.

Dinner....H and MIL ordered pizza. I have some left over pear & endive salad. I am going to have to cook up more quinoa and beans tomorrow, because I've had no protein today.

Ack. Ack Ack. Her skirt is one of the last places I want to lift up.

i want to know what the point system is lol balls is a big one