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#1
Sep 12, 2012, 10:44 AM
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Today is the day. I spilled the beans about my attraction to T the other day through email. He was so very understanding and amazing about it. He said it shows some growth on my part being attracted to someone who cares about me. He also said that it's totally okay, shows my bravery, and wants to talk to me face to face about it. GAH!
So he squeezed me for today. We will probably talk about boundaries and how normal my feelings are. I'm so lucky to have such a skilled T who doesn't shy away from the messy stuff and is there for my constantly. Hard to not be attracted to a man like that. Wish me luck! Pocket riders would be awesome, as I'm really nervous and will probably want to run from the room! 
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 anonymous112713, Anonymous32511, Anonymous32517, Anonymous32765, Anonymous33425, Anonymous37917, Chopin99, pbutton
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Sep 12, 2012, 10:57 AM
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I admire your courage! There's no way I could do this, but I'll ride along in your pocket so you'll have some support. Glad you have such a good, understanding T. Good luck!
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| Sunne
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Sep 12, 2012, 10:59 AM
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That's great, Sunne; I'll ride along!
“A heavy burden lifted from my soul, I heard that love was out of my control.” ― Leonard Cohen |
| Sunne
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Sep 12, 2012, 11:02 AM
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Love your Cohen quote! Thanks for that
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Sep 12, 2012, 11:11 AM
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Luck luck luck!
I'll come along!
__________________
Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about learning to dance in the rain. 
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| Sunne
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#6
Sep 12, 2012, 11:19 AM
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I'm in...that is great you were able to do that.
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| Sunne
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#7
Sep 12, 2012, 11:22 AM
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Sorry, I cannot bring myself to ride along because I ****ing hate this talk and have had it too recently myself. I know how scary it is and how unnerving, so I feel for you! You will live through this.
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| Sunne
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#8
Sep 12, 2012, 01:19 PM
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It may be too late, but if not, I'm coming too! I hope your session goes well!
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| Sunne
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Sep 12, 2012, 02:44 PM
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I hope your appointment went well today!!
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"You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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Sep 12, 2012, 03:04 PM
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I'm sorry. I can't resist. Freudian slip much?  Seriously, though, you're brave, brave, brave Sunne. Can't wait to hear how it went!
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#11
Sep 12, 2012, 03:14 PM
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| Sunne
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Sep 12, 2012, 03:18 PM
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If I missed the pocket ride, sorry, but I hope that it all went well!
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| Sunne
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Sep 12, 2012, 03:44 PM
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Thank you everybody! I'm excellent at Freudian slips, so's my T...
 It went 'okay'. He seemed somewhat nervous himself. I giggled like an idiot because it's what I do when I am nervous, and he was smiling like an idiot. So, it's all good. It's not interfering with therapy so it doesn't need to be 'dealt with'. He did say some wonderful things about me. That I have an artists soul, and that he and I are much alike 'soul wise'.. and that our souls are interconnected. We exist together in the metaphysical sense, I suppose. Not sure if that's supposed to make me feel better! Then we got on the topic of my husband and how I have no attraction to him and how.. awful my marriage is. I lelt feeling really sad about that and fired off a bunch of emails to T. Lucky him! I have a serious attraction to him. I think he might have a touch of counter-transference going on. He said he knew I was attracted to him before I told him. Ugh! But I trust he can handle this. Back to fantasy land I go...
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Sep 12, 2012, 04:31 PM
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I'm glad it went ok for you! that's a tough one, that "talk"! And you are brave for doing it!
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| Sunne
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Sep 12, 2012, 09:49 PM
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So great that it went well!
I have to have this talk with my t, but neither of us have brought it up. Was it a positive thing for u? Should I?
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