Most meaningful thing your t has told you...

"I really enjoy working with you."

(last session) "As important as you are to me, ..." (okay, what followed wasn't that positive, but it's a great half-sentence )

Hard one... but
T1 - someone should have told you this before
T2 - you are far from stupid
T3 - I am not repulsed.
Current t - oh, right, I don't have a current t.

He said, yes he will stick around, he would never refuse to treat me, that he is here for the long haul.

T told me that someone will want to be with me.

My T has told me that it is an honor working with me because I am trying and working so hard towards my recovery.

He has also told me (when I was despondent and feeling that I am too damaged to ever find another partner) that I would be okay and that I am a "catch intellectually and emotionally" and that I needn't worry as I have a lot to offer and am a kind person. Not sure I believed him but it was very nice of him to say.

T has said lots of comforting things, but the most meaningful thing is "You are in control." He says that many times, in many different ways, and it's starting to sink in.

It is too hard on me (talking about seeing me as a patient). That was really meaningful.

A few things..

- Your a good kid with a great heart.
- I believe in you, your not a failure, and I'm proud.
- I think your worth it.