 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#1
Sep 12, 2012, 10:09 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
when my first T ditched me , i was devestated... the shame, the sadnesss, the hatred toward her was unbearable...
i could care less what others said as I was hurting, emotionally bleeding... some how i was able to press on look for another, i was hurting , I didnt want another, I wanted her...my xT the one who rejected me... but hindsight well its 20/20.. (like you didnt see that coming) .. my new T way better fit, God brought me to him and lead me away from her. even though myheart was broken whn we split... and it was, i was so lost... it lead me to him..... so even when it doesnt feel if you break it off with a T , know it will get better ... your fit will be found...it just may take accepting that some dont fit. i used to drive by her office on purpose... to see if she was there... today i drove by on accident and it didnt matter, as i am getting over her... Thank God and New T |
 Anonymous32516, Anonymous32795, Anonymous33425, Anonymous37917, Chopin99, granite1, murray, WikidPissah, ~EnlightenMe~
|
 CantExplain, granite1, Sannah, sittingatwatersedge, WikidPissah, ~EnlightenMe~
|
|
#2
Sep 12, 2012, 10:15 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
One belief I adhere to is that there is a purpose for everything that happens in life, good and bad. The bad usually ends up serving the purpose for good.
__________________
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined. - Henry David Thoreau |
| anonymous112713
|
| CantExplain, sittingatwatersedge
|
|
#3
Sep 12, 2012, 10:20 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
(((((Lola))))) so glad new T is so much better in so many ways for you
|
| anonymous112713
|
|
#4
Sep 12, 2012, 10:26 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
that's awesome insight, Lola!
__________________
Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~ 
|
| anonymous112713
|
|
#5
Sep 12, 2012, 10:54 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Lola,
I'm glad you found a good fit! I'm looking forward to being far enough along to have hindsight. Until then, I'm just happy for you
|
| anonymous112713, sittingatwatersedge
|
|
#6
Sep 12, 2012, 11:46 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
that's great!
__________________
Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about learning to dance in the rain. 
|
| anonymous112713
|
|
#7
Sep 13, 2012, 08:33 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
thanks girlfriend...this means so much to me.
 You are very brave, and very strong. Don't ever forget that.
__________________
never mind... |
| anonymous112713
|
|
#8
Sep 13, 2012, 09:46 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
lola i think it is awsome that you have found this T and i think ypou sharing this support can help a lot of people who are hurting . thanks .
__________________
BEHAVIORS ARE EASY WORDS ARE NOT  Dx, HUMAN Rx, no medication for that |
| anonymous112713
|
|
#9
Sep 13, 2012, 11:04 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
btw...totally off topic, but the title of this thread reminded me of my daughter. She calls H "Captain Hindsight" all the time. He will look at a problem and the first thing he says is "oh, it shouldn't have been done that way". Funny.
__________________
never mind... |
| anonymous112713
|
| murray, Sannah
|
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
